help..husband is bored!
hi guys! Me n my hubby had a long talk the other day n i jus need advice...
we been together 3 yrs, married 1, and im 20, hes 21. Now i grew up very sheltered and wasnt able to do almost anything, so i was very closed up, shy, and uptight, always have the attitude that i dont feel like doing anything..bcuz i never could..u would think when i moved out i would be like yay i can do whatever i want..but to grow up that way for so long can really put some stress on a relationship w someone who grew up completely opposite
anyways i love my husband with all my heart, and he loves me with all his heart..now he complains about being bored..theres things he wants us to do together..such as strip clubs etc..he wants me to be more spotaneous w our sex life n not care about where etc n this is something i really wanna do for him..i will do anything for my marriage..i jus need advice on how..i dont even know how is what sucks the most, but i really wanna learn n want my husband to be happy..i dont want to bore him bcuz of how i was raised..i must get out of that ASAP!!!! so ideas would be greatly appreciated..i need to be more confident so my sex appeal can shine thru!
oh n i need ideas as far as being spotaneous w our sex lives and any ideas on how to spice it up! and i mean ANY ideas..i aint the type of person to be like eww..jus need more options! thnx guys
Last edited by Lovinmyhubby; 05-11-2011 at 03:34 AM.
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