Please excuse my ignorance but what is a P90? In your example, her comeback almost sounds similar to your half asking for some play. She in turn was half replying to show you her breasts. The term p90 doesn't sound all that erotic in this context. (even thuogh I have no idea what it means).
I feel seducing is more of a coming on cause you "want
" and "desire
" your partner, there is an intensity
about the matter, no asking about it, but passion fully present with eyes that tell the whole story when she looks into them, she should feel a longing for her.
It is not so much light hearted with a question mark hoping she will come your way but a "oh honey, I am SO into you right now, have been missing you all day" type of feeling- needing to be expressed in words , showing a bodily urgency that you need to have her NOW. With a rubbing up against her, a pushing her down romantically.
Sometimes sex may be the last thing on our minds, but a coming on like this can take us by sweet surprise- and she will fall under your spell ~~ your passion fueling her passion.
Starting with some affection to gauge her mood, your hands around her waist, a kissing on the neck, hands moving further up possiby, whatever she LIKES- glances to see the pleasure on her face, if it is there, more kissing, roamning hands going to some of these hotter zones, a whisering in her ears all the things you have been waiting to do to her, Teasing all way to the finish.
For me, THIS is seduction. Many women will fall under such a spell. Need to not be afraid or even question your ability to bring her to these places though, she wants to feel your passion. (or she should!!).
I realize this sounds easy , if your wife is a cold fish or you are having issues, might not go so well, but a shame, this is what romance novels are made of and it works for most of us !