Because she's behaving awful, *****y, and putting undertheradar through hell. She has no remorse for her EA and is hell bent on punishing UR for ending it. She also keeps stating she has no feelings for him AND that she doesn't want to be married. She is just staying for the kids.
How many more reasons does he need to kick her to curb?
Thanks Magnolia. I agree with you.
The end of a day today.....
I've been keeping everyone up to date. Today, I woke up feeling rather "empty", and it turned out to be a blessing for me. She did her thing, I did my thing, there was nothing in between. I didn't feel like talking to her, and she tried talking to me.
I don't have to kick her to the curb. I don't like doing things that way. I just have to go through the process of detachment. She doesn't want to be with me...I'm gradually accepting it. I do expect to have an occasional step back, but in the long run, I will adapt to NOT including her in my daily thought process. In time, she won't have to make a decision, nor will I. It will just happen.
I had one conversation this morning. She asked me how I feel about "things". I explained that she could stay here, with the understanding that it's over. I don't to stay for the kids, I want her to work WITH me on an exit plan. She didn't answer. I told her, she should be free in less than three months.
I spent the day rather quiet, and to my self. I didn't post much today, so I can clear my head a bit.
Tunera... The hatred is settling in. I feel that I didn't deserve the way she's been treating me for three months, and I decided today, that I have no right to forgive her. Let her have her glory.
I'm sure there's a woman out there, that would appreciate a man like me, and I intend to take that attitude with me, later on down the road.
I have plenty of life in me.
I do need to stay strong, and pay much more attention to the facts, and not get blind-sided by memories.