Originally Posted by MarriedWifeInLove View Post
My first thought - excuse my french - was beatch!
Booty call, I don't think so.
Either she wants the whole package or she gets none of it.
I agree - time to move on.
If my husband ever told me that he didn't want to try, didn't love me and only wanted me for a booty call - that would be the final straw that would kick me out the door.
The only reason I'm still there is that I know he loves me...that helps me to try and work things out and get through the issues.
But love gone - then I am.
Geez,... The woman told me right to my face, "I don't want to be married"
She told me she has "nothing to give"
She told me she "feels empty inside"
She told me she "only with me for the kids"
She told me "she doesn't want to see me hurt, but she knows how much it will hurt me"
Need I hear anymore?
What am I waiting for?
The second coming of a deep love from my wife.
The woman doesn't love me anymore.... Period.
Why should I accept anything less for myself?
Granted, it's very difficult to walk out. I agree. And there's a good chance that I'll be here until after I speak to my attorney.
But even if I accept her arrangement to be here for the kids, how would that work?
Do we do family things together?
Do we hold hands?
FWIW..... I'm a 52 yr old very intimate, affectionate man. I am not afraid of intimacy with a woman. I love to make my woman happy.
If she isn't willing to accept the very quality trait that I pride myself on, then what is it that I have to look forward to?
Should I become a husband zombie?