Re: Getting caught at self pleasuring yourself
Yes, and it nearly broke us up and still - 5 years later - comes up very seriously in arguments. For whatever reason, we'd agreed we wouldn't do it and to make matters worse when he challenged me I initially denied it. Turned out he'd recorded me (not on purpose, the recorder was there for *us* if you see what I mean - he only checked it because he'd gone past our room on his way to a spare room because I had gone to bed early feeling totally cr*p with a cold). I did it to get to sleep. He's never understood why I didn't just go up and ask him to help. That's my continuing regret - but even now it's something I would find hard to put into words.