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Old 06-05-2011, 10:04 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I was just curious if there's any married or non married women out there that have been caught by there hubby or boyfriend doing the you know what. It's kind of embarrassing I know women but tell the truth if you care to do so. I almost forgot; after you got caught did it help or hurt the relationship.

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Old 06-05-2011, 12:18 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Yes. We had great sex afterwards
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What is your hang up with masturbation?
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I have no hang ups. I just want to know other people's experience in this situation.

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Old 06-05-2011, 08:14 PM   #5 (permalink)
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nothing wrong with it at all. just dont leave your man out of it all the time like my wife has done me. we are now separated. that sucks.
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Old 06-05-2011, 08:49 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Wow,
Care to discuss your situation more or you choose not to.

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Maybe you should talk to your wife.
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Old 06-06-2011, 08:26 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Once I caught my wife in bed. It was late, and she thought I had fallen asleep.
I rolled over and asked her what she was doing. She said, "nothing" and was pretending to sleep. Well that didnt go over too well with me, so I attacked!!! Good times were had by all.
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Old 06-06-2011, 08:39 AM   #9 (permalink)
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If my wife walked in on me she'd be emabarrased and run out of the room. A big reason why we're getting divorced. She has a real hangup about sex.
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Old 06-06-2011, 08:39 AM   #10 (permalink)
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walking in on my wife like this is a fantasy of mine.

She's walked in on me before and we usually have a good laugh.
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Old 06-06-2011, 09:32 AM   #11 (permalink)
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I was just curious if there's any married or non married women out there that have been caught by there hubby or boyfriend doing the you know what. It's kind of embarrassing I know women but tell the truth if you care to do so. I almost forgot; after you got caught did it help or hurt the relationship.

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I have no hang ups. I just want to know other people's experience in this situation.

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Old 06-06-2011, 09:36 AM   #12 (permalink)
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why are your spouses doing this while your in close proximity? why do they choose it over the real thing? i understand doing it when away from each other, but while lying next to your spouse in bed, that would concern me.
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Old 06-06-2011, 09:54 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Yes, and it nearly broke us up and still - 5 years later - comes up very seriously in arguments. For whatever reason, we'd agreed we wouldn't do it and to make matters worse when he challenged me I initially denied it. Turned out he'd recorded me (not on purpose, the recorder was there for *us* if you see what I mean - he only checked it because he'd gone past our room on his way to a spare room because I had gone to bed early feeling totally cr*p with a cold). I did it to get to sleep. He's never understood why I didn't just go up and ask him to help. That's my continuing regret - but even now it's something I would find hard to put into words.
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Old 06-06-2011, 10:01 AM   #14 (permalink)
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I did it to get to sleep. He's never understood why I didn't just go up and ask him to help. That's my continuing regret - but even now it's something I would find hard to put into words.
I don't understand how anyone would make it a big deal to take a few minutes of comfort to go to sleep while you had a cold.

And you hear about it even five years later?
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Old 06-06-2011, 10:05 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Hell if the missus couldn't get her lunch-time fix she would call me and insist on... well you know...

Which well, leads to a lot of rather weird sayings over the phone... I dare say no more, you get the idea >.>

Freakin' nympho
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