Runs like Dog

How can I get him to do something for me?

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krismimo

Panda kiss is your avie from the anime hell girl? Is that the video game?

SockPuppet

For the record guys are capable of this too. We dont always think about knocking boots with the woman.

Undertheradar

When I was younger, I must have been a hunk

I remember walking up to a hot dog vendor. She was a young, beautiful woman. She looked at me, and said... "dear lord, you are so incredibly sexy". I stuttered when I ordered the hotdog.

I guess I knew what she was thinking.

WhiteRabbit

When I see an attractive man...I wonder what he's packin down below. Call me a perv but it is the first thought in my head. My next thought is "doesn't matter what he's packing doll, he isn't looking at you anyway". . This of course is present...past would have been "nice, he's a hottie...glad I'm married...wouldn't wanna fall for a player!"
Oh hindsight how you mock me terribly.

I did see the most beautiful man the other day. Soulful brown eyes, full lips so luscious it was almost a sin for a man to have lips like that, a body that nearly made my eyes pop out of my head, scruffy 5 o'clock shadow gracing his gorgeous jawline... *sigh*he was too beautiful...it was like looking right at the sun...had to blink a couple times before I could see correctly again.
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mkl

[QUOTE=WhiteRabbit;377191]When I see an attractive man...I wonder what he's packin down below. Call me a perv but it is the first thought in my head.


haha I was going to say the same thing but didn't want anyone to think I was a perv either. I see a hot guy and think to myself... Hum, wonder if he shaves, down there?

Undertheradar

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That's it, I'm stuffing a sock in my pants, and going for a stroll

SimplyAmorous

LOVE this, come on women, what are you so worried about HERE, let it out- be REAL , we are dirty old women, so what! Just shows we got blood running through our veins. I think like this all the darn time, love it, when THIS goes away, Hell, I won't be worth much in the bedroom likely.

Doesn't mean we don't love our men. I pester my husband so darn much, he is hardly worrried about me going elsewhere, he tells me he likes me being a BAD GIRL, he'd never want to go back!

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okeydokie

alot of the same women who thrashed men on that long thread about looking at other women a few months back on here saying they do the same thing to other men, jeezus women are confusing

WhiteRabbit

*sigh of relief* i wasn't one of those that i can recall.

SimplyAmorous

I seriously defended the majority of men on that thread- that sounded like Good faithful husbands anyway. I realize not every man is , of coarse. Alot of women have been hurt by unfaithful wayward disrespectful men. And this is very unfortunate.

Here is the thread >> Is this the way men really think...?


I can only speak from my own experience. Husband faithful , doting & loving incarnate, but the man does not lie to me, and I KNOW he enjoys a little looking. He tried to hide this fact when I had issues with a little porn. But he never once used it in place of me, but waited for me.

As for me, I used to only notice "faces" on guys pretty much, hardly even looked at their chests & all - and at that time I was pretty boring & vanilla in bed & just wasn't in touch with my own sexuality somehow.

Once I became "awakened" and got rid of the Good girl hinderances that had me bound, I was suddenly all over my husband but also I started noticing more men, it just seemed to come with the added sex drive- like a flood. You could say I have entered that "Cougar" stage of life & it just feels gooooood !

I never strayed or did anything to make him feel less loved. As my 1st post on here, I make darn sure he knows I WANT him, and he is the only one for me, I accually go out of my way here. He would be the 1st to tell anyone. My greatest fantasies are of HIM & me in our youth doing the things we do NOW but missed back then- because of my hangups.

We BOTH enjoy a little looking, neither of us are insecure about this at all, so I guess that is the difference and why we can be so "open" with each other.

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Enchantment

I don't know - maybe I'm the oddball on the forum, but I really don't think much about other guys in a sexual way when I see one that is attractive, and I feel pretty real and have a great sex life with my husband.

I just think we are all different - kind of like some people are artistic, or some people are athletic. I think some people are just more sexual and have these kinds of feelings more often - and there's nothing wrong with that. Just as there's nothing wrong with you if you don't. Not everybody who runs can be an Olympian. I'm happy to be able to run a mile or two.

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SimplyAmorous

And this RIGHT HERE ^^^^ is why I darn well appreciate someone like you Enchantment cause many others who are NOT feeling it or don't understand it would JUDGE, but you are graceful here in saying "and there is nothing wrong with that" towards those of us who R more "sexually minded".

I agree with you, nothing wrong on either side, but very true the more sexually minded a man or woman is -or admits too - generally the more Perv lables, cheating mentality seems to come up, It just isn't always so. I don't think alot of us can help it, it is just something we ENJOY thinking about. Makes us feel young, vibrant and happy! Doesn't make us bad people, or unfaithful spouses. This is pretty much why I responded like that originally as I felt some women were holding back feeling like a "perv" in admittnig.

It is good we are all different, makes life VERY interesting. I take pleasure in being a little out spoken sometimes, you will have to excuse me.

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that_girl

I think he's cute...and probably gay? haha....many of them are in my area.

Enchantment

SA - Love your "outspokenness"! Your zest for life shines through, so keep it up.

I think people are prone to get themselves in to trouble when they don't turn their sexual energy towards their spouses, and instead turn it outward towards others beyond their spouse or even turn it totally inward.

I have a much more sexually energetic spouse than I, and it does require some amount of understanding and compromise on both our parts to not snuff out the higher sexual energy spouse's drive and not overwhelm the lower sexual energy spouse. But it can be done - there can be a lot of good friction between opposites!

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