Yes, but read the very negative review.
There will always be a some negative reviews to any GOOD book. Heck even this has it's critics Amazon.com: Customer Reviews: Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage
(are you kidding me!!)
My guess is the one who wrote that slamming review, which I did read by the way, is OVERLY religious minded, either he has some real issues going on at home, or he just enjoys being a CRITIC to anything that goes against his tidy holy world view. Did you see how he ended that review saying it could lead to violence & Murder ! WHAT!!!! The man is outrageous to say such a thing and if he is a Chrstian, even more so. I think we should look at the mentality of the poster, don't you!? His take on this book was HIGHLY HIGHLY exaggerated.
Listen, I have this book & NO WHERE is LOVE slaughtered in it. It has ideas that may be a little out of the box, true, BUT NOTHING, I repeat NOTHING, that has you compromising your marraige bed.
Let's face it -If your heart & mind is being led elsewhere to another man or woman , one thing is VERY CLEAR >>> you have LOST passion at home, and have gotten BORED. Who can disagree with this?
Now if that poster feels HOLY in slicing the role of a litte LUST in our lives, he can do it till the cows come home but the reality is - LUST influences the majority of us-even if we refuse to acknowlege it, it plays a HUGE ROLE in sexual attraction. (How many of you married someone you was not sexually attracted too- you never felt the URGE to want to "do them" ? ) People need to get real.
Obvioulsy not that poster and every critic of that beautifully written book Sheet Music, I can imagine what a stick in the mudd they are in bed. (I used to think like this in some measure so I know where these people are coming from).
The review was obviously from a fundamentalist minded person who sees NO value in spicing up your sex life, that you are just a sinner if you get bored in your marraige and the answer lies in finding GOD, anything remotely secular is dung. He likely prays before he has sex too, I wouldn't be surprised. They advocate this in my church mind you.
Personally, I highly ENJOYED the read, it gave me insight to what the ALLURE is in WHY people fall into affaris, and it makes all the sense in the world. It is the same reason we FALL IN LOVE in our youth, it is a RUSH of hormones, lust is involved and it is Da** exciting, it consumes us.
If we can take what you learn about affairs and APPLY them in YOUR marraige, you will infact SAVE your marraige. *****
stars from this reader.
I bought this book because I personally LOVE the Rabbi, have a # of his books, He always makes me smile, laugh when I see him on interviews. Plus I felt it could SPICE up our sex life (after all I used to be somewhat of a prude) - and it DID.
I feel the need to make my own review on Amazon now.