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post #16 of 62 (permalink) Old 09-21-2015, 07:14 PM
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Re: Kissing

It needs to be firm, medium depth, and a nice touch of wetness with one hand at the back of the neck and the other strategically placed right above the hips. Temporarily that is.

I've practiced many years to get just the right technique.

You do have to love it to do it right.

It's the best right after they melt up against you wanting more.

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It needs to be firm, medium depth, and a nice touch of wetness with one hand at the back of the neck and the other strategically placed right above the hips. Temporarily that is.

I've practiced many years to get just the right technique.

You do have to love it to do it right.

It's the best right after they melt up against you wanting more.
Melting right now...

I guess then there is nothing wrong with my technique. Must be them.
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Re: Kissing

Kissing is the ultimate piece de resistance! It's too damned unfortunate that neither of my XW's had a solitary clue about kissing! At least not around me, anyway!

But I can totally guarantee you that the next Mrs. Arb will be an absolute master of the kiss!

And kissing is one of those most pleasurable things in life whereby you can just keep on doing it until you get it right! Heavenly!

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I'm an acts of service love language but I would love to be kissed in a way that leaves me breathless. My eyes actually change from blue to green when it's a good kiss or I'm excited or.....

Stbxh was a terrible kisser. He would jut his jaw to the side and tilt his head the other way like you would manuver a can opener and talk about wet, wet, wet!!! Yuck!! Add bad teeth, a horrible underbite and the worlds biggest snot ball and there he is.
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I love kissing and I do miss it

Maybe I will be lucky to get my chops around another good kisser in the future but although I miss it I don't think I'll be rushing into locking lips with anyone for the foreseeable future.
Why is that?
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My take? You cannot "teach" someone to kiss. It's either electrifying or it's not, based on chemistry and your and said partner's kissing prowess (along with good physical attributes -- good teeth, fresh breath, full lips, kissing "prowess"...)

My SO happens to be a SUPERB kisser. We often spend hours simply kissing. It is almost sexier than... well... SEX!

Quite contrary, my ex was a tongue-thrusting, slobbering, zero-skill kisser (kissing him was like kissing dry, thin, dead pine needles with sticky sap dripping out! )

It's all in chemistry and attraction. And those lips... Oh, those LIPS!!
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I agree. A great make-out session is just almost as good as sex!
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post #22 of 62 (permalink) Old 09-21-2015, 09:59 PM
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I'm with HAAC on this, is all about chemistry. I have been with men in the past that did not have the best technique but if the chemistry is good then that more than makes up for it.

Mr H and I and A+++ kissers, we spend a lot of time doing it, in and outside of the bedroom. Chemistry and technique are both excellent here. The kids just ignore us now lol
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I love this topic, and it's rather timely for me. I enjoy kissing very much, but I have been neglected in that area for way too long (my exH stopped kissing me a day after our marriage). My current companion only kisses as an ouverture to sex. Makes me wonder if I'm doing anything wrong??
Can you initiate a make out session yourself? If he thinks it is just a lead up to sex, just stop and say "no, I was hoping to just make out with you for a bit, we can have sex later, right now I just want to kiss!"
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My eyes actually change from blue to green when it's a good kiss or I'm excited or.....
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How cool is that!

Mine are not as cool, but they do change color. Mine are hazel and have green bursts when the sunlight hits them.

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Re: Kissing

Love deep deep tongue kisses so does hubby but he likes to quickly proceed to other upper body areas, wish he would stay with the kisses for a bit. What is it with guys, its all about the destination!

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Naww FrenchFry has me reminiscing about our first kiss too. Not FrenchFry and I... my husband and I. Our first kiss happened at the club on the dance-floor. I was hooked. We kissed for hours. Then he lined up our first date. I admitted on the date that I was nervous (because apparently I'm smooth like that) and he replied by kissing me against his car. mreow.

Kissing and making-out with him, rocks. It happens often enough for the spark to be there, yet not so often that it becomes predictable. He makes me feel like a love-struck teenager.

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This may have been the subject of a post before...but thought I would ask everyone what they think of kissing?

I love it and could have passionate kisses for hours....but I've been with some partners who just were not good kissers and when that was the case, I avoided kissing beyond a peck.

Do you love kissing? Is your partner a good kisser? Can you get into kissing even if they aren't a great kisser? Do you wish there was more kissing in your relationship?
Yep...love kissing, partner is a great kisser, copious amounts of kissing in our relationship...

FW...please clean out your PM box a bit...I have a real doozie I tried to send you...

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I used to be a terrible kisser. TERRIBLE. I'm considerably better at it now, but my wife doesn't appear to be much of a kisser anymore, other than hello and goodbye kisses. Maybe I ruined it for her?

Darling it's better down where it's wetter, take it from me! --- Sebastian
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I used to be a terrible kisser. TERRIBLE. I'm considerably better at it now, but my wife doesn't appear to be much of a kisser anymore, other than hello and goodbye kisses. Maybe I ruined it for her?
How do you know you were so terrible?
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How do you know you were so terrible?
Because I remember what I used to think was the proper way to kiss, and it's embarrassing in hindsight.

I was quite inexperienced at the time, and my wife, God bless her, was too nice to tell me how awful I was. Took me a while to catch up.

Darling it's better down where it's wetter, take it from me! --- Sebastian
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