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post #31 of 62 (permalink) Old 09-22-2015, 10:53 AM
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My take? You cannot "teach" someone to kiss. It's either electrifying or it's not, based on chemistry and your and said partner's kissing prowess (along with good physical attributes -- good teeth, fresh breath, full lips, kissing "prowess"...)

My SO happens to be a SUPERB kisser. We often spend hours simply kissing. It is almost sexier than... well... SEX!

Quite contrary, my ex was a tongue-thrusting, slobbering, zero-skill kisser (kissing him was like kissing dry, thin, dead pine needles with sticky sap dripping out! )

It's all in chemistry and attraction. And those lips... Oh, those LIPS!!
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I think you are spot on with this. My wife and I STILL talk about our first kiss because it was something neither of us had ever experienced before. It set the universe on fire. Aside from me being so nervous, I thought I would vomit, there was no awkwardness at all. It was so natural and felt as if we had been doing it for years...we kissed for two wonderful hours straight, and haven't missed a beat since...


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post #32 of 62 (permalink) Old 09-22-2015, 11:34 AM Thread Starter
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Because I remember what I used to think was the proper way to kiss, and it's embarrassing in hindsight.

I was quite inexperienced at the time, and my wife, God bless her, was too nice to tell me how awful I was. Took me a while to catch up.
Ha ha, that's cute. Really though, getting bear hair in your mouth when kissing isn't that bad.
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How cool is that!

Mine are not as cool, but they do change color. Mine are hazel and have green bursts when the sunlight hits them.

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You just described my H's beautiful eyes.

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Wife is a poor, dry, kisser which is unfortunate because I'm a very passionate kisser...just another way my wife and I are totally mismatched.
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Alright, everyone's homework is to grab your partner's hand, lead them to the couch, and sit and tell them "I just want to make out for a bit, sweetie! This is not a prelude to sex, it is just for the joy of kissing." Then work on your kissing skills, even if you are already good at it, but mostly work on getting to that deep, intimate place inside of yourself that you can only get to in a great make out session.

If you don't have a sweetie, sorry about that...maybe you can at least imagine how you would do it and how it feels in a nice fantasy scenario in your mind.

No sex! Even if you both get horny and want sex, abstain! The point of the homework is to find that glorious place that kissing provides while working on your skillz.

You can have sex the next night.
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Do you love kissing? Is your partner a good kisser? Can you get into kissing even if they aren't a great kisser? Do you wish there was more kissing in your relationship?
Kissing... I remember very vividly the HIGH , the getting lost in each other I felt Kissing when I was highly aroused.. I mean it was soooooo heavenly I never wanted it to end.. I felt we were breathing through each other - literally we didn't seem to come up for air.. it was the most amazing thing.. thinking about it..

I have noticed since we have A LOT more sex -getting off than we used to.. the kissing is NOT that "electric"... I guess what I am saying is.. when I am highly aroused.. the kissing takes on this magicalness, erotic quality that is on a lessor scale when we are have more quantity sex...

Not that I needed to compare that.. I guess there is some incentive to wait & Build the fires..

I've asked my husband this, if he feels like that... for him.. he says it's always GOOD.. like he doesn't notice the difference.. I hope I wasn't bumming him out by admitting this.. (too honest for my own good)..

But still we love to Kiss.. both of us.. he could kiss for hours..
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I did have this girlfriend back in the day, high school time. She attached herself to my face. She reminded me of one of the tank cleaning fish. I also dont think she brushed her teeth very often, that relationship lasted ten minutes.
My ex was also a terrible kisser, it was more like being given mouth-to-mouth, you know how they talk about putting your lips right over the other person's mouth to get a good seal? So slobbery. And pressed so hard my head would be pushed backwards until my neck hurt. Sadly though, I was inexperienced and infatuated, and too busy thinking "I'm kissing X!" to recognize the lack of quality as a red flag of incompatibility.

Over the course of the marriage I tried and tried to improve my ex's technique, to no avail.
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post #38 of 62 (permalink) Old 09-23-2015, 07:15 PM
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I love kissing and could do it for hours with the couple of great kissers in my life - they were both guys I dated before my ex husband.

My ex wasn't mechanically bad - not sloppy or too much tongue or too firm or too soft. But he seemed to think it was something to do only during sex, and then, not for very long.

I've missed good kissing for about 27 years.
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I love this topic and I am lucky
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When I was younger, I made a point of always giving my companion a SERIOUS kiss on the first date. I don't mean a wet sloppy tongue kiss, but a moderately long firm, lips parted, intense kiss in the context of a warm embrace....One girl told her daddy, and wouldn't date me again...One climbed into bed with me the next day....And all the rest came back for at least seconds.....I LOVE to kiss, and some of my happiest times were hours long make out sessions...

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Kissing... I remember very vividly the HIGH , the getting lost in each other I felt Kissing when I was highly aroused.. I mean it was soooooo heavenly I never wanted it to end.. I felt we were breathing through each other - literally we didn't seem to come up for air.. it was the most amazing thing.. thinking about it..

I have noticed since we have A LOT more sex -getting off than we used to.. the kissing is NOT that "electric"... I guess what I am saying is.. when I am highly aroused.. the kissing takes on this magicalness, erotic quality that is on a lessor scale when we are have more quantity sex...

Not that I needed to compare that.. I guess there is some incentive to wait & Build the fires..

I've asked my husband this, if he feels like that... for him.. he says it's always GOOD.. like he doesn't notice the difference.. I hope I wasn't bumming him out by admitting this.. (too honest for my own good)..

But still we love to Kiss.. both of us.. he could kiss for hours..
I remember during a long passionate kissing session where her lips, her arms, and her whole body would go limp. The only motion would be the fluttering eyelids and her suddenly shallow breathing....Absolute total surrender to passion and arousal...
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I remember during a long passionate kissing session where her lips, her arms, and her whole body would go limp. The only motion would be the fluttering eyelids and her suddenly shallow breathing....Absolute total surrender to passion and arousal...
Yes.. .... nothing better in our human experience than getting caught up LIKE THAT.....with someone you love....
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This may have been the subject of a post before...but thought I would ask everyone what they think of kissing?



I love it and could have passionate kisses for hours....but I've been with some partners who just were not good kissers and when that was the case, I avoided kissing beyond a peck.



Do you love kissing? Is your partner a good kisser? Can you get into kissing even if they aren't a great kisser? Do you wish there was more kissing in your relationship?


I love good kisses!


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Definitely wish there was more kissing. Wife won't kiss with tongue at all, so I just don't do it anymore, wouldn't want to anyway. It's something I desperately wish I had.

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I absolutely hated the way my exhusband kissed me. He was very awkward, his mustache always hit my lips and he either wanted to peck me on the check or french kiss me and he was lousy at french kissing. I ended up avoiding his kisses all together.
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