Re: broken heart
I'm so sorry to hear about that. I don't know if my advice is right, but I think I would leave him. If you teach your daughter right and wrong and pride, she will be fine and will not run wild. My mother and father split when I was 7. I got into some trouble as a teen, but not much. I even smile a little when I talk about that trouble. lol... You don't want your daughter to end up in a similar relationship and stay with the guy do you? She may not understand now, but she will figure it out when she is an adult. You will not need to tell her anything and she will still figure it out. You need to stand up for yourself and do what is best of both you and your daughter. You can support yourself, you can teach and love your daughter and you can find someone else who will love you the way you need to be loved. I have some issues with my husband, but not like yours. I think if my situation was your situation, I would get pissed and the anger would push me to get out and succeed. I would know that I didn't need him and he didn't deserve me. Stop being sad, get pissed and do what you need to do. Maybe have your little girl stay at Grandma's house for a few days and just get pissed. I wouldn't let him know what is going on until it's done. Pretend like everything is ok, get the financial items taken care of like utilities in your name and bank accounts and then go. Get legal help asap. Be strong.. You do not deserve to be treated that way.