cheating wife

ManDup · 09-16-2011, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by turnera

The first thing you need to do is go to your bank and arrange that she cannot take money out of your accounts without your permission. Many cheaters will clean out their spouse, because they need to start a new life and they 'deserve' it. That's the affair 'fog' talking - your wife has been replaced with an alien, an addict, whose sole purpose now is to keep getting her 'fix' of the OM. You are the enemy if you try to pull them apart, and she WILL harm you to stop you from doing it - either in words or actions.

It's like breaking up teenagers. Move to another country.

mrnice · 09-16-2011, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by john1000

I have been married for almost 20 years,I have 3 kids with my wife.Recently my wife has had a relationship with a younger guy who live just down the road from our home.She prommised that she would not see him again,but I have seen them together recently-she is still seeing him.

She met him at our local Bar where we socialize most weekends.

The humiliation has been unbearable as everybody in our village knows about this affair,I was the last person to find out.

My question is this :

What should I do, I know this is a strange question,I'm unable to make a decision as my head is in such a mess.

She has lost respect for you totally.
It's time to move on.

Strap yourself in dude, you're about to hit some major turbulence in your life.
Do what's best for the kids.

fool for love · 09-19-2011, 11:51 PM

I just found out tonight that my husband no longer wants to be married. I have found him "cyber" cheating twice and just recently he purchased a prepaid phone which is what prompted the discussion. I have been fooled for years at this point. If she continues and you are still in love with her, you need to address the situation and move forward. The worst thing you can do to yourself is deal with an unhappy situation. Its not healthy and you don't want to feel like a fool in the end. Just my opinion, and good luck!

BMadoff · 10-04-2011, 11:11 AM

You need two guys....Mr. Smith and Mr. Wesson

fool for love · 10-04-2011, 01:23 PM

Bmadoff, I know that would solve my problems, the problem is its illegal....lol