Oh goodness..... between Chillymorn & 1st year..... He KNOWS not all women are like that, cause he reads all this stuff written by some of us Nymphos on here. He is just speaking out of his own experience---as so many of us do
. I do it too sometimes, I have to re-adjust my thinking, I appear to have more of a slant towards men in general and sympathize less with women many times, probably because I am more difficult than my own husband. I know this is why I do this ...and more women (family members & friends) have hurt me in my life over men . But I have to remind myself ......this is NOT everyone else's experience by a long shot.
Trying to calm the waters here....... just lightly correct when one gets a little carried away "in a moment" -- we ALL do this from time to time, the keyboard gets the best of us. Maybe his wife just gave some attitude moments before that original post that started all of this & he was in a fowl mood when it was written, It happens. Then another feels attacked- we defend & attack, he defends & attacks = snowballing.
One thing I know is this...Chillymorn & FirstYearDown agree a hell of alot on this same issue - regardless of this little scuffle you got into here.
I love washing dishes, so she leaves these for me. I never even use the dishwasher when she's out of town.
A guy who LOVES doing the dishes, you don't hear this much, or women for that matter. We never had a dishwasher, I never wanted one & we have 8 people. On some weekends, add another couple teens. I don't mind doing them though. I do, however, hate how they leave dishes all over the house though, then I have to crack the whip to get them brought where they belong.