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Originally Posted by Therealbrighteyes  So there was an article in today's Huffington Post about "Are fantasies about somebody other than your partner a form of cheating". Interesting premise but I disagree. |
A christian had to have written this, cause for them, that would be "lusting" outside of the marriage.
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Anywho, the November issue of Vanity Fair has Mr. Depp on the cover and if lusting after him is cheating, then I have been unfaithful.
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Any woman who hasn't done this, I would think there is something wrong with her (or she is lying to save face). I've noticed a # of men who have wives who never seemed to have these insane CRUSHES in your youth for hot guys, and those are the women with zero to no sex drive -for anyone. No doubt those hubbys would rather them CRUSH & have an active, even vivid fantasy life. I've asked these questions a # of times, it seems to be a "theme".
It is down right NORMAL to be this way. I enjoy a little fastasy of lusting, I'll admit it. Just makes life more FUN, more interesting, feisting our eyes on things that entice. I mean it is possible to go TOO far, become obsessed, become a stalker, I'm not talking about anything like that. Just passing fantasies, so long as these things don't affect your marriege , I say why the heck not! They have never affected mine.
My husband has had crushes on certain actresses too & Rock stars (Lita Ford), and loves those playboy bunny pin ups, that is so far from cheating in my book -it is laughable. He likes hot women, so what, I like hot men, it doesn't bother him in the least, nor me. It just proves our hormones are working adequately, that is how I see this issue. I would argue with that woman who wrote that , tell her she is too heavenly minded.
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There is only one thing hotter than Johnny Depp and that's the Earths core.
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I hear this so often, and I don't get it, never had a thing for Depp- not even when he was younger, his movies are so very strange, never cared for any of them, only one that I recall where he was acting "normal", I think he was a dad and time was running out , something like that- I did enjoy that one. Brad Pitt never did a thing for me either.
I like some odd ones.
I go GAGA over Rock stars a little more than actors, it seems, but a Romantic movie can send me into a frenzy where I must go out & rent every film that actor was in. If this is cheating -hell I have cheated on my hubby over 100 times in our marriage. He has no issues- heck, it worked in his favor in the past. Every time I seen a movie where the actor was turning me on, he got what he wanted that night.
In our youth, I have even dragged him to the town of James Dean for a Festival after seeing this movie
. Poor man was dead for 30 yrs & there I was -infatuated with him, his early life, wanted to see his grave site, bought some books. Never could understand why "REbel without a cause" was so much more popular than this, this was his "Masterpeice".
I got so crazed about the young John Cougar Mellencamp back then, before we marreid, we traveled to his Hometown, and got a picutre in front of that PINK House he gave away, and had a ball sleeping in nearby campgrounds, I just wanted to see where he grew up-his small town, we met random people who knew him.
Here are some of my other BIG crushes. I never put pinups on my walls, I was never that bad- had a friend who had every corner of her walls plastered with DAVID CASSIDY. I never had a crush on him at all.
I even had it for all those Englismen on Monty Python. (I do fall for odd men).
I loved the young Robert Downy , he always seemed to play the guy who never got the girl but I sure would have wanted him.
Had it bad for Ed Norton
. Always Ryan Gosling -our Notebook Romanticist
Young Kauna Reeves
When I seen Bram Stokers Dracula, although very sick, I fell for Gary Oldman, he always plays a Son of a B -no matter what he is in, but I found him terribly intreging & intense
Even fell for Toby Mcquire for a time
After I seen Letter to Juliet, I went & rented all this actor was in
English actor Richard Armitage was my last Crush , after seeing him play Guy of Gisborn in Robin Hood
-not to mention the highly romantic English "North & South" - if you like Old time Love stories, rent this , over 500 PERFECT reviews
Amazon.com: North & South: Daniela Denby-Ashe, Richard Armitage, Tim Pigott-Smith, Sinéad Cusack, Lesley Manville, Brendan Coyle, Anna Maxwell Martin, Jo Joyner, Pauline Quirke, Kay Lyon, Brian Protheroe, Rupert Evans, Kristina Hetherington: Movies &
Rock stars.....to list a handful ... had it for Rob THomas when in Matchbox 20
Axel Rose in his youth, oh my!
Kurt Cobain
Sebainan Bach of Skid Row
and of coarse, I can't leave out my favorite porn star :
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Fantasy dude.... 
yum. 
