Originally Posted by Therealbrighteyes
So there was an article in today's Huffington Post about "Are fantasies about somebody other than your partner a form of cheating". Interesting premise but I disagree.
A christian had to have written this, cause for them, that would be "lusting" outside of the marriage.
Anywho, the November issue of Vanity Fair has Mr. Depp on the cover and if lusting after him is cheating, then I have been unfaithful.
Any woman who hasn't done this, I would think there is something wrong with her (or she is lying to save face). I've noticed a # of men who have wives who never seemed to have these insane CRUSHES in your youth for hot guys, and those are the women with zero to no sex drive -for anyone. No doubt those hubbys would rather them CRUSH & have an active, even vivid fantasy life. I've asked these questions a # of times, it seems to be a "theme".
It is down right NORMAL to be this way. I enjoy a little fastasy of lusting, I'll admit it. Just makes life more FUN, more interesting, feisting our eyes on things that entice. I mean it is possible to go TOO far, become obsessed, become a stalker, I'm not talking about anything like that. Just passing fantasies, so long as these things don't affect your marriege , I say why the heck not! They have never affected mine.
My husband has had crushes on certain actresses too & Rock stars (Lita Ford), and loves those playboy bunny pin ups, that is so far from cheating in my book -it is laughable. He likes hot women, so what, I like hot men, it doesn't bother him in the least, nor me. It just proves our hormones are working adequately, that is how I see this issue. I would argue with that woman who wrote that , tell her she is too heavenly minded.
There is only one thing hotter than Johnny Depp and that's the Earths core.
I hear this so often, and I don't get it, never had a thing for Depp- not even when he was younger, his movies are so very strange, never cared for any of them, only one that I recall where he was acting "normal", I think he was a dad and time was running out , something like that- I did enjoy that one. Brad Pitt never did a thing for me either.
I like some odd ones.
I go GAGA over Rock stars a little more than actors, it seems, but a Romantic movie can send me into a frenzy where I must go out & rent every film that actor was in. If this is cheating -hell I have cheated on my hubby over 100 times in our marriage. He has no issues- heck, it worked in his favor in the past. Every time I seen a movie where the actor was turning me on, he got what he wanted that night.
In our youth, I have even dragged him to the town of James Dean for a Festival after seeing this movie
. Poor man was dead for 30 yrs & there I was -infatuated with him, his early life, wanted to see his grave site, bought some books. Never could understand why "REbel without a cause" was so much more popular than this, this was his "Masterpeice".
I got so crazed about the young John Cougar Mellencamp back then, before we marreid, we traveled to his Hometown, and got a picutre in front of that PINK House he gave away, and had a ball sleeping in nearby campgrounds, I just wanted to see where he grew up-his small town, we met random people who knew him.
Here are some of my other BIG crushes. I never put pinups on my walls, I was never that bad- had a friend who had every corner of her walls plastered with DAVID CASSIDY. I never had a crush on him at all.
I even had it for all those Englismen on Monty Python. (I do fall for odd men).
I loved the young Robert Downy , he always seemed to play the guy who never got the girl but I sure would have wanted him.
Had it bad for Ed Norton
. Always Ryan Gosling -our Notebook Romanticist
Young Kauna Reeves
When I seen Bram Stokers Dracula, although very sick, I fell for Gary Oldman, he always plays a Son of a B -no matter what he is in, but I found him terribly intreging & intense
Even fell for Toby Mcquire for a time
After I seen Letter to Juliet, I went & rented all this actor was in
English actor Richard Armitage was my last Crush , after seeing him play Guy of Gisborn in Robin Hood
-not to mention the highly romantic English "North & South" - if you like Old time Love stories, rent this , over 500 PERFECT reviews Amazon.com: North & South: Daniela Denby-Ashe, Richard Armitage, Tim Pigott-Smith, Sinéad Cusack, Lesley Manville, Brendan Coyle, Anna Maxwell Martin, Jo Joyner, Pauline Quirke, Kay Lyon, Brian Protheroe, Rupert Evans, Kristina Hetherington: Movies &
Rock stars.....to list a handful ... had it for Rob THomas when in Matchbox 20
Axel Rose in his youth, oh my!
Sebainan Bach of Skid Row
and of coarse, I can't leave out my favorite porn star :