Ok so me and my husband got married on the 24th of september 2011,only been married a couple of weeks
The thing is i have a "friend" that i seem threatened by :S i started to notice it on our wedding day when she was at mine when i was getting ready to get married,somebody asked me to phone my husband to be to make sure my sister got on the coach that was taking the quests to our wedding,and all off a sudden she jumps up and shouts ill do it ill phone please let me phone him,i was like no its ok ill do it thanks oh but i get free calls lets me do it please so i said no! Now most recently she has had a big impact on our relationship,As soon as 9am hits the clocks there texting constantly,he is always down there,always doing favours for her and her so called boyfreind she dosent really take intrest in,Ive asked him to stop texting her and he said yes but has actually done it!Ive asked him not to go down to hers when her boyfreind isnt there as he works and he is his freind not her anyway,but still goes down,he even teaches her little boy stuff and is quite nasty to our kids,so tonight we had this big argument i really needed him there yesterday as my baby was gettin an operation done,and when i came home at 9pm with our baby he wasnt home he was 50miles away selling there car for them as a favour and i really could of done with a cuddle from him as it wasnt nice to see from being at the hospitial he didnt arrive home until 12am in the morning,everytime she needs somethin hes there,we were on holiday last week and i asked him no to text her and he did it anyway even though he said no!! he says there is nothing going on and he has no feelings and that he is just bein a freind but i have a feeling that he has some sort of feelings for her i just have this instinct,he also says stuff like i go down there to get away from you as you nagg me too much etc etc,he also goes down there an drinkins at the weekend and she tells me diffrent storys thatn what he has and then he looks at me as if to say oh s****,i feel very threated by her too t,its her that makes me angry its her that makes me cry its her that makes me frustrated not him,i 100% trust my husband and know he would do anythin but i still thing there is some feelings there,she is the problem what can i do?
also he promised me tonight that he will only go down when her boyfreind is there and that he will change his number and wont text her again as he said i was more improtant tha anything,i just want to say something to her but i dont want to if you know what i mean incase i have the wrong end of the stick but i know i dont and she is really bugging me and its making me frustrated
sorry for the long letter
He says he is just being a good freind