Just to give a little backstory about my situation there is this woman who works in the suite next door to my husband's office and she comes into his office basically just to talk to him and drink her wine (don't get me started on that.) So anyway, some of the things that she tells me husband are her sexual escapades. How she slept with this girl how she's sleeping with this guy and that guy. My husband comes back to tell me these stories and the common denominator that I'm seeing with all these men that she's sleeping with is that they are all married. I didn't like how she feels she needs to be so "open" with my husband but I never say anything. When we decided to sell our old living room tv my husband comes up with the idea to sell it to this woman once again I say nothing and brush it off. Tonight I get my husband's phone and I'm going through his messages and I see this woman in his phone. There are no inappropriate messages going on but it bothers me that she seems to text him randomly and asks him to come over to her office and where is he when he's not there. This time I confront my husband about it and he blows up at me saying that I don't trust him and he can't believe we're having an argument about this. When he married me he didn't know that he was marrying a jealous person and if I don't trust him then we shouldn't be married. As far as the texts go he says that most were about the tv that we sold to her and she wanted him to come to her office cause she had a gift card for him. I told him that it's not that I don't trust him I just don't trust her and he's being a little too friendly. Then he says so I can't talk to any girls now? What do you want me to do? Stop talking to her even if she comes into the office? In the middle of the argument I just shut down and stop talking. I couldn't get him to understand why I was angry. If she was just a random woman that likes to go in his office and talk that's one thing but the oversharing of her sexual history and knowing that she has a thing for married men just does not sit right with me. Someone please tell me if I'm overreacting to all of this?!?
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