Ladies, I'm losing my wife, help me please
 Talk About Marriage
  The Marriage Advice and Relationship Help Forums
  right
Forums - For Therapists - Link to Us - Advertise  

    A Public Forum Provided by The Family & Marriage Counseling Directory
Register FAQ Community Search Today's Posts Mark Forums Read

Navigation »Talk About Marriage »Talk About Family, Marriage and Relationships »The Ladies' Lounge » Ladies, I'm losing my wife, help me please

The Ladies' Lounge Sharing and support.

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Search this Thread
Old 10-23-2011, 03:52 PM   #1 (permalink)
Registered User
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 7
Default Ladies, I'm losing my wife, help me please

She miscarried 4 months ago and we don't talk, and now we argue, I think she will eventually Wana leave me, I say dumb **** to her and I don't mean to, were both on the defensive, I'm afraid to ask her if she wants counseling. I feel I'ma lose it all, help me, I don't Wana lose my family. If there is anyone out there whose been through this and could give me advice, my number is ( seven 2 four 312- zero five 24. If there is an angel out there I'm willing to listen, I'm 28 years old, and I'm scared to death
Posted via Mobile Device
mike2012 is offline   Reply With Quote
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
Old 10-24-2011, 11:46 AM   #2 (permalink)
Member
 
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Midwest USA
Posts: 85
Default Re: Ladies, I'm losing my wife, help me please

Quote:
Originally Posted by mike2012 View Post
She miscarried 4 months ago and we don't talk, and now we argue, I think she will eventually Wana leave me, I say dumb **** to her and I don't mean to, were both on the defensive, I'm afraid to ask her if she wants counseling. I feel I'ma lose it all, help me, I don't Wana lose my family. If there is anyone out there whose been through this and could give me advice, my number is ( seven 2 four 312- zero five 24. If there is an angel out there I'm willing to listen, I'm 28 years old, and I'm scared to death
Posted via Mobile Device
I'm so sorry for your loss. This year I have lost two babies to miscarriage and it is so emotionally and spiritually devastating. Has your wife gone to any counseling after she lost the baby? Do you think she could be suffering from depression? It is possible to get PPD after a miscarriage just from the physical changes - not to mention the emotional toll it can take. Have you asked her what she thinks she needs to do to get through this?

I don't know how far along she was when she lost the baby but if her due date would have been soon, it may be difficult for her. The first baby I lost would have been born about two weeks ago and even though I wasn't consciously thinking about it, I'm sure my subconscious was because I was at a very low point emotionally then.

Have you gotten any help to grieve your loss? Maybe let her know that you need her to help you through this as well.

Take care of yourself and hugs to you both.
wemogirl is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-24-2011, 02:57 PM   #3 (permalink)
Banned
 
Join Date: May 2010
Posts: 4,725
Default Re: Ladies, I'm losing my wife, help me please

Be her pillar of strength. Be the beacon of unending patience and tolerance, empathy and compassion. Make a little shrine somewhere in the home for the baby, white candles, cross, bible or whatever are your beliefs. Read about the stages of grief and NEVER do anything to add to her sorrow and stress. Learn how to comfort and take care of yourself. And be patient.
AFEH is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-24-2011, 03:04 PM   #4 (permalink)
Registered User
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 27
Default Re: Ladies, I'm losing my wife, help me please

Hi Mike,

I know how you must feeling it's very difficult.
My husband ad I lost two pregnancies this year aftertrying to have family for 4 yrs.

Sadly he ha changed hi mind about how h feels about me and said he doesnot love me anymore.

I am devastated and feel that I ave lost everything now, I was offish and a bit nasty to my husbad after we lost the bbies but I never wanted to loose him.

Mabe your wife isfeeling the same as I did,it is hard try to talk t h tell her how you feel she may see wha is appenig and it ould hage hings for the bette.

I wish now I had been better to my husband inead of drownng inmy own self pitty.
x
love him is offline   Reply With Quote
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
Reply

Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
My wife is losing it... block0456 Physical & Mental Health Issues 5 10-24-2012 01:34 PM
A little help ladies - I'm losing interest in sex w/ the wife carras The Ladies' Lounge 91 07-23-2012 11:23 AM
So ladies... Help! Please interpret this text from my wife from a ladies standpoint. Trying2figureitout The Ladies' Lounge 239 07-02-2012 03:11 PM
Losing my wife... WIHUSBAND Considering Divorce or Separation 16 03-14-2011 01:35 PM
Im Losing My Wife Achillesthegr8 Physical & Mental Health Issues 3 07-30-2010 10:17 AM

Member Area

Find a Therapist:


Sponsor Ads


Sponsor Ads




Get The Family & Marriage Counseling Directory Help Guide via Email:
Name:
Email:




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 01:14 AM.



Copyright 2007 - 2013 © Talk About Marriage