10-24-2011, 12:46 PM
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Midwest USA
| | Re: Ladies, I'm losing my wife, help me please
Originally Posted by mike2012
She miscarried 4 months ago and we don't talk, and now we argue, I think she will eventually Wana leave me, I say dumb **** to her and I don't mean to, were both on the defensive, I'm afraid to ask her if she wants counseling. I feel I'ma lose it all, help me, I don't Wana lose my family. If there is anyone out there whose been through this and could give me advice, my number is ( seven 2 four 312- zero five 24. If there is an angel out there I'm willing to listen, I'm 28 years old, and I'm scared to death
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I'm so sorry for your loss. This year I have lost two babies to miscarriage and it is so emotionally and spiritually devastating. Has your wife gone to any counseling after she lost the baby? Do you think she could be suffering from depression? It is possible to get PPD after a miscarriage just from the physical changes - not to mention the emotional toll it can take. Have you asked her what she thinks she needs to do to get through this?
I don't know how far along she was when she lost the baby but if her due date would have been soon, it may be difficult for her. The first baby I lost would have been born about two weeks ago and even though I wasn't consciously thinking about it, I'm sure my subconscious was because I was at a very low point emotionally then.
Have you gotten any help to grieve your loss? Maybe let her know that you need her to help you through this as well.
Take care of yourself and hugs to you both.