How do I know if my husband is cheating?
My husband and I have been together for 12 years, married for 11. We have 3 beautiful children. Ever since my youngest, now 3 was born, I have had little to no sexual drive. We also suffered financially by loosing some rental property to a fire, and also through the low in the economy, which has only added more stress. I wake up nearly everyday at 6:00 am, even on weekends, and sometimes I am literally falling into the bed at 10:00 pm. He constantly calls me granny, says its pretty frustrating to be sexual with someone who acts like a granny. He started a new hobby, recently, which was learning to play the guitar. This is so much better than other hobbies he has had so I try to support it all I can. Recently I arranged for the kids to stay with my parents for a few hours so we could have dinner and spend some time together. He arrived an hour late, took nearly another hour to get ready, so we had a brief dinner which he recieved and sent several texts to "someone" while we were there. When we got home, he left him in my lingerie to play his new guitar, and comes back later asking me why I had changed and gotten into bed. He refuses to accept me on facebook, hides all his passwords from me, does not like me to touch his phone, and it feels as if we are drifting apart and speaking less and less. I feel like a roommate more than anything. Am I overreacting?