The reason I asked this somewhat bizarre question is based on a weird conversation with a woman recently at Panera who recognized me from 25 yrs ago. Before I was married, I was into performance art in college (singing, dancing, acting, etc), as well as being an athlete. Being a poor college student, I posed nude for art classes for money, which eventually led to me working as a male stripper for a couple of years. It was easy money, loads of fun, and helped me get over being shy around girls. Eventually the football coach threatened to take away my partial scholarship, so I had to stop dancing.
This woman at Panera said I ruined all of her adult relationships with men. Apparently I danced at a bachelor party that she was invited to when she was 18, and we ended up having a "private" dance later in the evening, that her friends paid for. She said this was her first sexual experience and that she had an expectation that all future men in her romantic life would be like the first - slow, erotic removal of clothing to music, very giving, in tune with her needs/responses/feelings, slow massages, gentle touch, soft kisses everywhere, by a man who works out religiously, clean cut, smells nice, attention to fashion/appearance, etc.
I guess she couldn't separate reality from fantasy, and she wanted to blame me. Is that realistic? I knew I shouldn't have moved back to my old home town.