10-31-2011, 11:15 PM
Join Date: Oct 2011
| | Re: Desperate for advice
That sounds like it is rough to be in your shoes. I would not be able to take that honestly. I would not say walk out and never look back because you want him to have a chance to be a father but, on the other hand you do not want your daughter growing up thinking it is okay to speak to someone like that or treat someone like that.
Do you think he would ever consider counceling without putting you down or saying f off. He sounds really immature. I am a no bs type of person but, dang that would just wear on me emotionally.
I do not think you need to work on youself honestly. I think you need to work on your relationship, the both of you. A person can only take so much before they go insane and how you are describing him would drive me absolutely insane.
I think you should atleast give it a try. Now how he will react to counceling is another thing. If he is not willing to work on the issue then I would be thinking that it would be best for my child if the parents were separate.
I grew up in a household with two parents who were very outspoken and fought so much. I was so happy as a child to have them divorce honestly. It gave me some peace instead of having to listen to them argue all the time. Even now as an adult, I still remember how I felt as a child when my parents argued and it did a number on me.