Trying2figureitout

Concerning your husband....

Do you look forward to sex with him or not?

When you start foreplay....Do you think about the sex act from the get go or are other day to day things on your mind?

Do you feel you are meeting his sexual needs honestly in terms of frequency, variety and participation level?

Does sex from your husband ever bring resentment to your mind?

Are there fantasies you don't tell your husband about? Why?

that_girl

I love sex with my husband.

He is my "dream" man...everything i wanted in looks and personality. Although his communication is bunk, we're working on that

He's so sexy...I love looking at him when he's working around the house...we shower every morning together--- not sexual--- but it's so nice to be naked and close.

I'm looking forward to tonight before bed... Omg, he really is the sexiest man I've ever known.

He says we have a good sex life. Even during our rough patch we had a good sex life. We are experimental and expressive. I like to do what makes him feel best, and he me.

Resentment does not come to mind.

Fantasies are fun to talk about. I just told him one of mine last night. He said he doesn't really have any anymore because we do what he always wanted to do.

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Trying2figureitout

Your husband is very lucky to have you.

Hope1964

I also love sex with my husband.

Do you look forward to sex with him or not? Very much so. I wish we did it more!

When you start foreplay....Do you think about the sex act from the get go or are other day to day things on your mind? I think about the sex. I've usually been thinking about it for days.

Do you feel you are meeting his sexual needs honestly in terms of frequency, variety and participation level? We're actually on pretty much the same page. He wishes I initiated more frequently, and I wish he initiated more frequently, so we obviously have to work on that. We also both want to be more adventurous. We discovered just last week that he has some kind of mental block about talking about sex with me - something left over from his childhood we think. So as we work on that together I hope we can let go a bit more together. I do know he enjoys sex with me even so.

Does sex from your husband ever bring resentment to your mind? Never. Unlike it did with my first husband, who used to tell me it was my wifely duty

Are there fantasies you don't tell your husband about? Why? There has been a bit of a rut sometimes where he thinks he HAS to bring me to orgasm and goes about it in the same old way as he's done for years, so I conjure fantasies in order to have the orgasm quicker so we can move on. We don't discuss fantasies at all - again, because he has this mental block about discussing them for some reason. I want to talk about them with him because I think it's sexy. So hopefully that changes soon.

Trying2figureitout

Are these fantasies really kinky way out that you ladies are repressing and involve stuff outside your bedroom?

Or are they along the lines of I wish he did this position or that thing in your bedroom?

lovesherman

Since we just finished making love, this is a fun one to answer! I always look forward to sex with my husband.

When we start foreplay, all I can think about is the pleasure that I am about to receive and give.

We both meet each other's needs in terms of frequency and passion. There have only been a handful of times that one or the other has not been receptive. He has turned me down when he is tired, and I have not been interested when I am not feeling well.

I have never resented sex from him. I let him know early in our relationship what pleases me, and he has been more than willing to accommodate my desires.

No fantasies that I haven't told him about.

We are very well matched and meet each other's needs. He has always been aware that I take longer than he does to become aroused, and he is patient with me. I, in turn, love seeing that look of ecstasy on his face, knowing that I put it there!

Hope1964

Well if you wanted to hear fantasies you could have just asked

Mine all involve my husband, but they're stuff like him and I with another guy or girl, or him getting a happy ending massage from someone else, or from me, or him doing it on the beach with either me or another woman, or walking in on me and another woman, or walking in on me masturbating. The kind of stuff you read in Penthouse Letters. Sometimes I think about stuff the two of us have done together. The other women are all faceless.

I guess it's weird that I still have these fantasies, considering that he cheated on me, but there you are. I had them before he cheated on me too.

Trying2figureitout

Why not do the walking in on you masturbating one at least. That sounds doable right?
He'd probably like it. I know I would if my wife did that.

Hope1964

We did do it once. I need to get more comfortable with my body and do it again sometime soon. I even went and bought a corset and stockings to surprise him with doing it.

In my fantasies I have my pre-kid, 25 year old body, not my post-kid-and-quitting-smoking 47 year old one

that_girl

My fantasies don't go outside our marriage but they do go outside our bedroom I can't even think about my husband doing it with someone else. lol Not a fantasy for me.

But we're into bondage so we live out our fantasies often.

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Trying2figureitout

You know us husbands don't care we see you as beautiful as ever. I don't know why ladies get so hung up on that. We fell in love with you and we stay that way as you change. Even when you get old.

that_girl

My grandpa used to say (after 60 years of marriage) that my grams was just as beautiful now as she was then

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PBear

Yeah, but how's his eyesight now compared to then? Just sayin'...

C

lovesherman

Hoorah for poor eyesight! When you see someone through the eyes of love, you see them at their best, ignoring the flaws that exist.

SunnyT

Uh huh.... things happen for a reason..... let's just be thankful!