Porn Thesis - Page 2

evenow · 10-30-2007, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by draconis

Well, I do not see it as a double standard if he were an alcoholic should he be able to drink because you do?

draconis

I didn't think of it that way.

I guess I just assumed if he couldn't watch porn, that I shouldn't either for solidarity? But he seems to be okay with it as long as he reaps the rewards.

draconis · 10-31-2007, 03:22 AM

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Originally Posted by evenow

I didn't think of it that way.

I guess I just assumed if he couldn't watch porn, that I shouldn't either for solidarity? But he seems to be okay with it as long as he reaps the rewards.

Most people are okay as long as they get a benefit from anothers activity. I have always looked at it as an addiction is an addiction and needs to treated as such.

draconis

Thewife · 11-13-2007, 06:49 AM

Trust me, I have never seen porn before marriage.......I felt awkward when DH introduced it to me..........later we started watching it together (tho i hate certain things), then we watched it alone but we dont hide it from each other. Now DH doesnt like to watch it together but I know he does alone.

I didnt mind this until I saw his reply to a spam sex mail, ever since I m not secure about letting him watch alone but I wouldnt know if he is still doing. The trust was shaken after this incident but I still trust him as it was only a spam mail. Perhaps he was just curious (hopefully).

draconis · 11-13-2007, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Thewife

Trust me, I have never seen porn before marriage.......I felt awkward when DH introduced it to me..........later we started watching it together (tho i hate certain things), then we watched it alone but we dont hide it from each other. Now DH doesnt like to watch it together but I know he does alone.

I didnt mind this until I saw his reply to a spam sex mail, ever since I m not secure about letting him watch alone but I wouldnt know if he is still doing. The trust was shaken after this incident but I still trust him as it was only a spam mail. Perhaps he was just curious (hopefully).

Have you ever considered a key logger?

draconis

Thewife · 11-14-2007, 09:38 PM

sorry for the late reply, really busy with my babies that i hardly find time to post.

Whats a key logger?

draconis · 11-14-2007, 10:56 PM

A keylogger is software that tracks all keystrokes made on your keyboard. It is hidden software that 99% of the computer users will never know exists on the computers unless they have installed some before. The sell for as low as $30 and as much as $90 for the really good ones.

draconis

Thewife · 11-15-2007, 08:51 AM

Oh that would be very good but he surfs porn in his place and has his own pc there...I hardly visit him let alone use his pc! Well, as far as I know he had never surfed porn at home without me.

Anyway, its good that i learnt abt this device........in case i need it in the future.