I have a great sex life. I have pretty much always had a great sex life, with the exception of one partner who I was a mismatch with...but the rest of my partners have been a good match to me.
More specifically, my current boyfriend and I are having a wonderful time getting to know each other sexually (and in other ways) and we are definitely a great match.
Our relationship is new, so we are still learning things about each other and each of us are expanding by what we are learning about the other and by trying and experiencing new things.
A couple of weekends ago we went out of town. This isn't easy for us because we have dependent mothers and he has dependent children, so it was quite a lovely treat for us. It was wonderful and heavenly.
I packed a whole special sex suitcase, with toys, sexy clothes and lingerie, movies, props, wigs, and other fun things. He loves it when I pack the special sex suitcase. He has no idea what is inside until we get to our destination and start getting busy. It was very fun.
The passion once we are actually having sex is the reward...and boy is it rewarding!! The play and fun leading up to it gets me to a point of nearly bursting forth with passion by the time we actually are having sex. Even the act of packing the suitcase, which would happen usually at least 12 hours before we actually get into a bed together, is the beginning of the foreplay for me. My mind is racing as I pack up every little surprise. Touching the toys and the clothes as I pack them gets me aroused and all tingly in anticipation.
Then when we get there I only take out or put on things one at a time....so it ends up being surprise after surprise for the whole weekend.
We try to do this at least once every 3 or so months. Wish it could be more often but those kiddies and mommies of ours get in the way.