So...My husband and I are in the process of purchasing a home. It has been a long process especially since I was deployed for much of the process. He was responsible for attending the meetings and the paperwork. I helped from my overseas location as much as I could. So now I am back and closing is approaching fast. At first I wanted to help, but it appeared he had it all figured out and I didn't want to mess up his flow because we just think and do things differently. I am a get it done kind of girl and he is slow and methodical. He complained that he felt like I was not helping. So what do I do. I start helping. Most recently, I took the initiative to start looking for movers. I did my research, received quotes and put together a chart that broke down the movers, by cost, truck size, reviews. I presented it to my husband last night and he scoffed at me and told me I didn't know what I was talking about and went on to say - I will just do it myself. I asked him if he wanted the quotes and he said no - he will just start from scratch. Needless to say, I am hurt. His words hurt. They always do. The last time, I tried to talk to him about his hurtful language he told me to get over it. He obviously has not respect for me. And I almost feel I have no respect for myself for staying in this type of relationship. Instead of responding verbally. I just went up to my bedroom and went to bed. I have not said anything to him since. He is very stubborn. Not sure what to do- *Crying inside -smiling on the outside. :crying: