Sorry for the rather vulgar title but it accurately sums up this little weird incident pretty accurately. I've been on this forum for a while now and I decided I'd take advantage of the anonymity of the net to ask for opinions on the only proper argument hubby and I ever had. It's something I've only mentioned to one friend in real life and she was mainly interested in reassuring and trying to calm me down.
Anywho here's what happened in all the painful detail, over a year ago I bought my sister in law and her equally chubby friend to the gym in an effort to get in good with the in laws.
I just wore a track suit to the gym and wasn't wearing any underwear, cause my work out kit was there and I had a clean set to wear after. my sister in law had ignored what I asked them to do and just come in tracksuits.
So they stand their looking at me in the changing room while I'm getting changed. Then she starts lecturing me about needing to wear a bra while I've got my sports bra in my hand. I'm the very model of patience. At that stage it hadn't occurred to me that I also shave my pubes and don't have a tan line.
Anywho The workout didn't go so well mainly because she was lazy and couldn't understand the need to get your heart rate up and sweat rather than bimbling on the thread mill and watching the tv.Although her friend in fairness was more interested.
In the locker room afterwards my sister in law discovered the shower was open plan, and didn't want to be naked in front of other people, so I said fine I'd shower first then stand outside and ask everybody to wait. although her friend did shower with me.We were going to dinner afterwards and waiting to shower at home wasn't an option.
When i got out of the shower my in law was changing into her fresh clothes and i just flipped (i'd been the picture of calm up untill then) I told her she was walking home unless she showered and that she was getting into the shower. the words 'dirty minger' were mentioned
She started welling up and we had a bit of a barnie but she did agree to shower in the end, and i did stand outside asking people to wait.
anyway my hubby and I talked about it that night and i agreed to apologize, for a quite life, which I did.
A few days later my hubby mentions in passing about how he'd prefer if i didn't shave my pubes anymore, I put two and two together went schiz and hubby and I had our first proper arguement. I knew before that my shaving my pubes made him uncomfortable but we had the conversation and I though we had settled it.
So i was about to track down good old sis and remove her from the family tree ,but eventually calmed down. But she has a big mouth and with a smalle circle of family it didn't help my reputation any. I never actually confronted her about it after promising hubby that I wouldn't but what really annoyed me at the time is how he seemed to be slightly embarressed by me and how he agreed with his sister that my waxing my pubes was some overt sexual statement.
Anywho I'd welcome any opinions that people might have, I know it sounds stragne but this is genuinely the only proper arguement that I've ever had with my husband.
Anywho here's what happened in all the painful detail, over a year ago I bought my sister in law and her equally chubby friend to the gym in an effort to get in good with the in laws.
I just wore a track suit to the gym and wasn't wearing any underwear, cause my work out kit was there and I had a clean set to wear after. my sister in law had ignored what I asked them to do and just come in tracksuits.
So they stand their looking at me in the changing room while I'm getting changed. Then she starts lecturing me about needing to wear a bra while I've got my sports bra in my hand. I'm the very model of patience. At that stage it hadn't occurred to me that I also shave my pubes and don't have a tan line.
Anywho The workout didn't go so well mainly because she was lazy and couldn't understand the need to get your heart rate up and sweat rather than bimbling on the thread mill and watching the tv.Although her friend in fairness was more interested.
In the locker room afterwards my sister in law discovered the shower was open plan, and didn't want to be naked in front of other people, so I said fine I'd shower first then stand outside and ask everybody to wait. although her friend did shower with me.We were going to dinner afterwards and waiting to shower at home wasn't an option.
When i got out of the shower my in law was changing into her fresh clothes and i just flipped (i'd been the picture of calm up untill then) I told her she was walking home unless she showered and that she was getting into the shower. the words 'dirty minger' were mentioned
She started welling up and we had a bit of a barnie but she did agree to shower in the end, and i did stand outside asking people to wait.
anyway my hubby and I talked about it that night and i agreed to apologize, for a quite life, which I did.
A few days later my hubby mentions in passing about how he'd prefer if i didn't shave my pubes anymore, I put two and two together went schiz and hubby and I had our first proper arguement. I knew before that my shaving my pubes made him uncomfortable but we had the conversation and I though we had settled it.
So i was about to track down good old sis and remove her from the family tree ,but eventually calmed down. But she has a big mouth and with a smalle circle of family it didn't help my reputation any. I never actually confronted her about it after promising hubby that I wouldn't but what really annoyed me at the time is how he seemed to be slightly embarressed by me and how he agreed with his sister that my waxing my pubes was some overt sexual statement.
Anywho I'd welcome any opinions that people might have, I know it sounds stragne but this is genuinely the only proper arguement that I've ever had with my husband.