Re: Does your husband *not* care about your weight?
Originally Posted by Middle of Everything View Post
I know I am probably going to regret opening this door, but here goes....
I agree that a little weight fluctuation not affecting ones attraction is a good thing. We are humans and we age. We aren't machines.
But your mood never affects his attraction? REGARDLESS of what you say or do?? How is that good? How does that not make you little more than a sex doll that he uses to get off? Regardless of what you say or do? STILL has the same desire and attraction? If it works you for and Dug I guess......
I read this to Dug. He said, "I love you. Why would your mood or your weight affect my attraction to you?"
Some men are just not bothered by these things, MoE.
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man