So I know I have a part to play in this, but my husband got the plate and the tag for the car (the one I wanted him to wait on buying in the first place) and he comes home and it says "In God We Trust" on it instead of our county of residence. I informed him that I preferred it to have the county and how come he didn't call to ask. He stated that he thought it wouldn't be a big deal, and how much he dislikes our county, and he wanted to make a decision that he thought would represent both of us. Now, I have talked with him before about me putting certain tags and stickers on the car, but they were too feminine and he's a man, and men don't drive around with those things on those cars because people will think he's driving his woman's car. (Well, for one, we're both paying for it, so its both of ours car.) So anyway it lead into this whole argument about how I look down on him for not making decisions (um, where did he get this from, I never told him this, never told him he should make more decisions.) I did tell him when he makes decisions, (especially finanancial ones) he needs to know the budget and whats in the bank. I do look down on decisions that are made based on imaginary money and not considering a budget (I've never told him this, I've just informed him to start looking at the budget instead of being mad at me when I make a financial call because I know what the numbers are.)
So then it turns into, I'm always walking around with a chip on my shoulder. Well yeah, when you continually ask a grown man to help with stuff and it takes days and weeks to get to it, or you can't remember, then yeah. But, you have time to watch four hours of the same episodes of tv everyday. Then he barks back at me, well you're always watching tv and never studying and you're just mad at me for being a man. Um, no, remember, I am at home during the day. You have no clue what I'm doing, there are days and days I go without watching tv and just because once or twice a week you see my shows on demand does not mean I take hours everyday to watch tv. What I'm doing during the day is taking care of your daughter, taking care of the home, and finding ways to earn extra money. Sorry if I don't have time to study to until after the baby is sleep or for a couple of hours while you are off work. And, I'm mad at you for being an irresponsible man.
Last edited by maccheese; 12-07-2011 at 08:47 PM.