Originally Posted by maritalloneliness View Post
If they can't get a clue, literally take their hands and place them on your breasts most men will get the message as when some men would push your head in the general crouch area if they're interested in oral.
You would think this would be true, but as with @Red Sonja
's answer, you can do this, but then within a minute or two they will stop.
This is, if they are not a boob man.
A boob man...you don't need to put his hands on your breasts, they are already there.
But with a non boob man, you can put his hands on your boobs yourself and he will just take them back and do other things with them soon enough. You can put them back, you can discuss it with them, you can try to make it very clear what you are wanting...but if they don't have the urge to touch your breasts to begin with, they simply will not remember, and not only that, when they do touch you or put their mouth on your breasts, they will be doing it under direction and not their own direction, and it will quickly become uninteresting to them and they will stop.
You can remind him over and over, and still, mostly he will only remember for one minute at a time or so, and will stop again.
A boob man? You can't stop him from constantly wanting to touch and see and kiss your breasts. There's no asking him to touch them. There's no moment when he doesn't notice them. He's always aware of them, where they are, what they are doing, what you are wearing, specifically what bra you are wearing (or none)....
...when you have to ask a man to even take notice of your boobs, there's not really much more evidence you need that he will not notice them most of the time.