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post #16 of 69 (permalink) Old 12-31-2016, 07:05 PM
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Have you tried discussing it with your lovers before? If so, how did it go down?
Yes, I have always discussed likes/dislikes/desires/limits with lovers in the past ... that has always been a sort of filtering criteria for me ... if you can't talk about sex then I don't need to be having sex with you because I am not shy and don't mesh well with someone who is shy. I have also expressed (and responded to) specific wants during the moment.

My experience has been that my lover will do what I ask for, but only for a minute (or less) and then they move on to what they want to do. My "numbers" are low so I'm sure it's just the men I've been with.

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Can you expand on "this"?

Meaning, she has breasts you like? That she wants them to be touched, etc? Or would it be enough if she just had them and you could look at them but she wasn't into you touching them? Or even further...would you need her to let you play a lot with them? (A lot still being kind of subjective, of course).
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I don't know that I have ever had a woman who didn't like them touched. Had to think about that for a second. Guess my answer would be no. I like playing with breasts so much I couldn't be with a woman who didn't like them being touched. My gf is on the opposite scale and loves it. I am fairly confident if I played and sucked on her nipples long enough should would cum from that alone. I have previously been with a woman who actually did that very thing which until that afternoon didn't even know was possible.
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I guess the title says it all. I'm hoping to hear from women about their own breasts...but men can answer too about how important their partner's breasts are or aren't to their own sexual fulfillment.


Quite important. Although my wife's strongest ass(et) has always been her derrière. It's perfect shape and goes really well with my face shape...The breasts are currently being taken over by someone else unfortunately.



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Love a nice set of boobs - this is why I love doing it cowgirl as I love having full access for my hands and mouth.
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Have you tried discussing it with your lovers before? If so, how did it go down?
I have with my current bf. Hes an ass man. I told him thats all fine and good but play with my tits!!! They are woefully and i mean woefully ignored. I swear my nipples are connected to my clit. Too bad he hasnt made that connection. I mean, he tries. He's just got no game.
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I have trouble reaching orgasm if they aren't stimulated. Past partners didn't pay enough attention to them. Post-baby, I find myself cramming down insecurities about their shape/firmness but in the end, they look a lot better than they probably will in 20 years, so I've decided not to be so neurotic about them, and just enjoy the fact that they are there, and healthy. Some breast cancer survivors in my family, so perspective is helpful.
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Yes, I have always discussed likes/dislikes/desires/limits with lovers in the past ... that has always been a sort of filtering criteria for me ... if you can't talk about sex then I don't need to be having sex with you because I am not shy and don't mesh well with someone who is shy. I have also expressed (and responded to) specific wants during the moment.

My experience has been that my lover will do what I ask for, but only for a minute (or less) and then they move on to what they want to do. My "numbers" are low so I'm sure it's just the men I've been with.
If they can't get a clue, literally take their hands and place them on your breasts most men will get the message as when some men would push your head in the general crouch area if they're interested in oral.

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I have trouble reaching orgasm if they aren't stimulated. Past partners didn't pay enough attention to them. Post-baby, I find myself cramming down insecurities about their shape/firmness but in the end, they look a lot better than they probably will in 20 years, so I've decided not to be so neurotic about them, and just enjoy the fact that they are there, and healthy. Some breast cancer survivors in my family, so perspective is helpful.
Yah, for the life of me, i can't understand men that don't automatically include a lot of breast foreplay in their lovemaking.

i'm no don juan, learned everything by touch and go (yes), and a pretty clueless guy, and even i would always begin with
prolonged breast foreplay after making out, just by instinct. i mean; how else is a clueless guy suppose to start?????

as far as my wife; i would say importance to her sexual satisfaction on a scale of 1-10, a 4. meaning playing and fondling her breasts
is a plus and a considerable enhancement, but not absolutely necessary. she likes my face in her boobies during the throes o passion.
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that reminds me, i remember the first few times i made love to a woman. believe me, i didn't have the foggiest notion.
i was really raw.

after the obligatory making out,
as a clueless guy, i thought to myself "what the heck am i suppose to do now???? i can't just bone her, a woman needs love, not just
*****ing; what do i do??? oh yah, i guess i should start by sucking her nipples. that seems like a plan!"
then read her body language and go from there........
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Desirable...yes....but how important were they--or are a partner's breasts to your sexual fulfillment?
I was never much of a breast man being more into butts and legs but of course breasts are extremely attractive and erotic.

Since being with Mrs. Conan, every inch of her body became important sexually.

I started paying serious attention to her breasts because they were part of her and I noticed that sucking and licking them while letting my hands roam or engaged in intercourse made her moan with pleasure so I took that as important.

Since her augmentation surgery, her overall confidence increased as well as bedroom confidence but she became too sensitive for much breast play.

She is becoming more comfortable with breastplay again and absolutely loves me caressing them before and during sex.

I would say that overall, they are very important for our mutual satisfaction.

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My wife does not get much out of having her breasts touched. I find breasts to be very nice things, but they are not super important. I'd be happy to pay more attention to them if she wanted, but am equally happy to do other things that she prefers.
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If they can't get a clue, literally take their hands and place them on your breasts most men will get the message as when some men would push your head in the general crouch area if they're interested in oral.
You would think this would be true, but as with @Red Sonja 's answer, you can do this, but then within a minute or two they will stop.

This is, if they are not a boob man.

A boob man...you don't need to put his hands on your breasts, they are already there.

But with a non boob man, you can put his hands on your boobs yourself and he will just take them back and do other things with them soon enough. You can put them back, you can discuss it with them, you can try to make it very clear what you are wanting...but if they don't have the urge to touch your breasts to begin with, they simply will not remember, and not only that, when they do touch you or put their mouth on your breasts, they will be doing it under direction and not their own direction, and it will quickly become uninteresting to them and they will stop.

You can remind him over and over, and still, mostly he will only remember for one minute at a time or so, and will stop again.

A boob man? You can't stop him from constantly wanting to touch and see and kiss your breasts. There's no asking him to touch them. There's no moment when he doesn't notice them. He's always aware of them, where they are, what they are doing, what you are wearing, specifically what bra you are wearing (or none)....

...when you have to ask a man to even take notice of your boobs, there's not really much more evidence you need that he will not notice them most of the time.

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My experience has been that my lover will do what I ask for, but only for a minute (or less) and then they move on to what they want to do. My "numbers" are low so I'm sure it's just the men I've been with.
It is not just the men you've been with.

In my experience, there are boob men and non-boob men and you can't make one be the other, period.

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I have with my current bf. Hes an ass man. I told him thats all fine and good but play with my tits!!! They are woefully and i mean woefully ignored. I swear my nipples are connected to my clit. Too bad he hasnt made that connection. I mean, he tries. He's just got no game.
I get it. It is sad.

If only non-boob men could understand the fulfillment we can get from our breasts.

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It is not just the men you've been with.

In my experience, there are boob men and non-boob men and you can't make one be the other, period.
I don't understand this attitude at all. If my lover tells me "It turns me on when ...." then I am going to be doing whatever it is.
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