I married a boob man... which was very good for many years as I was previously very self conscious of my over-endowment and he helped me learn to love them too.
When our marriage was still good it was not uncommon for him to just snuggle them at night... he actually nick-named them. Almost like he had a separate relationship with the "twins"
But I have to say it did help my confidence that he lavished them with so much attention... and for that reason I would say they were just as important to me. I would often tease him that I didn't understand the fascination, but then I realized that I had the same fascination with male parts.
My one complaint, was that despite trying to steer him a certain way many times, he never really touched them in a way that aroused me. It was lovely when he snuggled them, very erotic if he used them for friction, but merely amusing and frustrating at times when he just played with them for his own amusement. Think lots of squeezing (which could be painful), light sucking, and the occasional motorboat (a little too silly at times). Whereas I prefer more attention to the nipples: pinching, more forceful sucking and nibbling.
Now that the only touch they get is my own, I can see what a difference it can make in reaching climax, and not just as a confidence boost.
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