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I don't understand this attitude at all. If my lover tells me "It turns me on when ...." then I am going to be doing whatever it is.
I know, right? But as you've experienced...this is something you can direct a man to do, but if he is not a boob man, he simply won't remember to do it, and even while he's doing it he is not really that engaged and will quickly forget what he was supposed to do and do what he wanted to do anyway.

Have you ever experienced a boob man so that you know the difference?

Wow. It is such a stark difference.


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My wife does not get much out of having her breasts touched. I find breasts to be very nice things, but they are not super important. I'd be happy to pay more attention to them if she wanted, but am equally happy to do other things that she prefers.
This is actually good, it is a good match between you two (at least there's this one!)

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If only non-boob men could understand the fulfillment we can get from our breasts.
For the life of me I will never understand this. As a man I love, love, love boobs. I've encountered men that say they are a butt or leg lover (one said feet really turn him on ), but never one who said boobs don't excite them.
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For the life of me I will never understand this. As a man I love, love, love boobs. I've encountered men that say they are a butt or leg lover (one said feet really turn him on ), but never one who said boobs don't excite them.
Sadly, I've met many. And I don't mean to down on them either, they can still be excellent lovers and very erotic and sexual. But there are a lot of men for whom boobs just don't do that much for them.

And yeah...I don't get what's up with it either. I love boobs. Yes, I love them "that way". And since I do, I have hard time understanding people who don't. I love mine, and I want my partner to love them the way I would and do love breasts. When a partner doesn't, I'm confused by it...but I've come to accept that it is true, some men just aren't boob men.

I think that men who aren't boob men don't advertise this fact, so you guys who are boob guys and who shout things like "yeah, show us your boobies!" to women...there are guys in your groups who laugh and play along as if they are interested, but they aren't really. They are probably hoping to see some leg or ass in the process, but they don't really care about seeing boobs much. They will not say so out loud to you boob guys usually, because they don't want to be shamed for not loving boobs. They may enjoy how boobs look and feel, and may enjoy the occasional grope or whatever. But trust me...there are a significant number of non-boob men.

And I can't seem to find a way to turn one into a boob man.

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Sex would still be amazing without boob play for me, I don't need it but enjoy it. MrH is a real boob man, he can't keep his hands or mouth off them which I very much enjoy. Sometimes I have to slow him down a bit because he can be super enthusiastic about them.

What I very much like is the reaction I get especially when I'm on top and he just can't keep his hands off my boobs. I do know the power they hold over him and I get off on that.
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Sadly, I've met many. but I've come to accept that it is true, some men just aren't boob men. But trust me...there are a significant number of non-boob men.

And I can't seem to find a way to turn one into a boob man.
Thank you for your explanation, helped me see it in a different light. And I guess if your not a boob man, you never will be.

(On a personal note, I still don't understand it. Just think of all fun they are missing!!)
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(On a personal note, I still don't understand it. Just think of all fun they are missing!!)
Right?



That's how I always feel when I realize someone hasn't properly loved on the boobies...

sigh....

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That's how I always feel when I realize someone hasn't properly loved on the boobies...

sigh....
Yea, I just assumed all men love the fun bags. Was I wrong.

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Yea, I just assumed all men love the fun bags. Was I wrong.
Don't I wish.

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Sex would still be amazing without boob play for me, I don't need it but enjoy it. MrH is a real boob man, he can't keep his hands or mouth off them which I very much enjoy. Sometimes I have to slow him down a bit because he can be super enthusiastic about them.

What I very much like is the reaction I get especially when I'm on top and he just can't keep his hands off my boobs. I do know the power they hold over him and I get off on that.
Yeah...when you've felt that power...and then felt the lack of it....ugh. It is hard (or maybe impossible) to go backwards on this. For me, at least.


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BTW, I really like your signature, gave me a good chuckle!
Thanks, I made my sig line in response to a post @tech-novelist made a while back. We're old sparring partners. The sig line was meant in jest, but is so funny I had to keep it.

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(On a personal note, I still don't understand it. Just think of all fun they are missing!!)
Yes! Ive told my bf, if you would give my boobs some lovin you would be gobsmacked at the levels of excitement i would display to you, for you, with you . . . Like i said, he tries. Tbh i really dont think hes selfish. There are times i intend to give him a stand alone bj, but he wants me to get some too, so we have sex. He wants to please me. He just isnt into boobies.
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I guess the title says it all. I'm hoping to hear from women about their own breasts...but men can answer too about how important their partner's breasts are or aren't to their own sexual fulfillment.
Breasts are lovely. Big breasts, small breasts, medium breasts. What is it about breasts that make me look at them and think to myself: "these are good."

What has two thumbs up and love breasts? Me!


Breast are warm and comforting.

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Love a nice set of boobs - this is why I love doing it cowgirl as I love having full access for my hands and mouth.
This is my husband.

It's great foreplay from the get go- to the "O".
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How important are your breasts to your sexual fulfillment?

I married a boob man... which was very good for many years as I was previously very self conscious of my over-endowment and he helped me learn to love them too.

When our marriage was still good it was not uncommon for him to just snuggle them at night... he actually nick-named them. Almost like he had a separate relationship with the "twins"

But I have to say it did help my confidence that he lavished them with so much attention... and for that reason I would say they were just as important to me. I would often tease him that I didn't understand the fascination, but then I realized that I had the same fascination with male parts.

My one complaint, was that despite trying to steer him a certain way many times, he never really touched them in a way that aroused me. It was lovely when he snuggled them, very erotic if he used them for friction, but merely amusing and frustrating at times when he just played with them for his own amusement. Think lots of squeezing (which could be painful), light sucking, and the occasional motorboat (a little too silly at times). Whereas I prefer more attention to the nipples: pinching, more forceful sucking and nibbling.

Now that the only touch they get is my own, I can see what a difference it can make in reaching climax, and not just as a confidence boost.


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