Re: Graying hair versus coloring
My SO has salt and pepper hair, and a beard that is greying even faster than his hair. It was like that when we met and fell in love, so I don't really tend to notice it to be honest. That's just his hair and beard color. It's him, the him I fell in love with. I find him attractive and sexy and distinguished looking just as he is - otherwise I wouldn't have started a relationship with him.
Honestly, from old photographs I know he was a handsome man before his hair started going grey, but I find him incredibly appealing just as he is now. I think I'd be pretty freaked out if he were to start coloring his hair or beard.
You'll find that many of the truths we cling to depend greatly upon our own point of view. - Obi Wan Kenobi