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post #16 of 16 (permalink) Old 01-22-2017, 10:37 PM
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Re: Husband wants to leave me because I cant support him

Uhh... you were taking time off from your job to drive him around during the day because he couldn't figure out public transportation? Uhhh.... no, just no.

Unless he's got a legitimate, medically diagnosed learning disability, he's a man-child who lets his helplessness work for him by ensnaring you into ridiculous levels of servitude.

You desperately need to put on your big girl panties and figure out how to stand up for yourself and set boundaries and learn to say no.

He need to get a job and finish his degree and be a provider. Gaming is fine but not in excess. Is he smoking a lot of pot as well?

Why are you wasting your youth with this guy? Why on earth would you want to continue to sleep with and support a young healthy guy who failed out of college, unemployed but refuses to job hunt and is clearly, blatantly taking advantage of your niceness.

Step one: whatever you do, don't get pregnant!

Step two: stop paying for his internet. If he wants to use the internet for games or to watch porn or to chat with whomever, he can get a job to pay for it.

Pay for your own phone data plan if you want, but don't pay for it at your home anymore. Tell him to goto the library or a coffeeshop and use their internet for his job hunt activities. Tell him money is tight and it's not in the budget.

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