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post #16 of 121 (permalink) Old 01-08-2017, 04:58 PM
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As long as they're well taken care of by the owner and as long as they are not overly large ~ they're all good!

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Maybe the expectation is that (clothed) boobs come with a certificate of authenticity?
But, Hmmmmm...............I think you are onto something here.
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I remember working somewhere where and this one woman was very sensitive and did not want dirty old men staring at her chest. One of her male coworkers said, "for the love of god, my boobs are bigger than yours are!" ...and he was correct. At the time I thought that comment was very justified as in "come on we all have bodies that people may stare at" but now that I am a little older I have to imagine that his comment really hurt her.

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post #21 of 121 (permalink) Old 01-08-2017, 05:42 PM
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Bras can only do so much. If a dude is disappointed that some chick's tits are 1/4 of a cup size smaller than he thought that's his problem.

If he's that upset when the bra comes off, he's got his priorities messed up.
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I disagree. Being a women I know that bras can do a lot. They can make you look perky, make you look a lot bigger if you want. They hide sock-tube breasts, nipples...
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post #23 of 121 (permalink) Old 01-08-2017, 07:01 PM
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Yea they definitely hide the effects of time and gravity.

I don't think they make them look all that bigger, though. Well, not to the extent that a dude could be disappointed when he unwraps the gift
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You know, the first cosmetic surgery was great for a while, but then I wondered "Why don't I improve everything else?" so I had several others... but they didn't last. Eventually things would sag, wrinkle, etc, and progressively, even, it seemed.

707 surgeries later, I was dissatisfied, but my surgeon said they had a great new alternative... it would take the pounds off forever, and my skin would be tight and firm like never before. When I got my "Flatness" everything changed. It's perfect.



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A well-made and well-fitted bra is designed to support your breasts as they look when you are bent over at the waist 90 degrees (naked). And, no they are not made of “armor” the only material in them that is firm is the underwire. The support is in how they are constructed and the correct fit on the body. Unfortunately they are expensive and you won’t find them at Walmart.

Most women don’t wear the correct size bra (too small cup, too big band is the most common mistake) and when you don’t your breast tissue will migrate … under your arms, toward your back, etc. If you are fitted into the correct size and wear it correctly your breast tissue will return to where it is supposed to be in 6 months or so.

Department stores with “professional bra fitters” in the lingerie department often don’t know how a bra should fit and are often trying to fit you into a bra, in a size that they stock. Most stores do not stock smaller (<32”) or larger (>40) band sizes or larger cup sizes (>G). Most men do not know what “big boobs” are, most seem to think a DD cup is big, however 34DD is the (true) average size of American and European women. Most women do not understand the relationship between band size and cup size.

I struggled with my breasts/bras for most of my life. First because I did not have a mother when the time came to start wearing one and I was on my own with the trial and error method. And then, (surprise) your breasts grow and change all the way up to age 30, even in the absence of weight gain/loss or childbirth. I went to department store bra fitters as an adult and they always put me in 38DD’s however they still felt “off” and uncomfortable. Finally I found a source of information that was correct, it helped me figure out the correct size and fit for my breast type. Turns out I am a 36G and those correctly sized bras feel great. In fact, I am not aware of them at all when I go about my normal activities.

To answer your original question, no I am not self-conscious about my breasts, although I do not “show them off” in public. I used to hate them because of the bra difficulties. But now, they look better than ever (naked or not) because of well-fitted bras.

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So, is the metal wire really the devil like my facebook feed says it is?
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So, is the metal wire really the devil like my facebook feed says it is?
If you replace your bras regularly and don't wear old ones, they are usually fine. Like most clothing involving support and elasticity, they lose effectiveness after a while and stretch out a bit. I HATE not having underwire in my bras, except for sports bras, which don't need them. It just feels wrong and makes me self-conscious.
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Nepalese lore alleges that female yeti have such large breasts that the best way to escape one is to run downhill. Said yeti are alleged to actually throw their breasts back over their shoulders while in pursuit of the hapless ghurka.


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I was told in my twenties that I had great breasts. But I sort of took that with a pinch of salt, because most men like breasts in general. Post-baby, they feel awful and look saggier, because they grow and shrink with pregnancy. Since some of the women in my family have had mastectomies, and breast cancer, I am making it a goal to be comfortable with them, and accept that while they aren't perfect, I am lucky to be healthy, to have both, and to have sensation in both. That's not a small thing.
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Nepalese lore alleges that female yeti have such large breasts that the best way to escape one is to run downhill. Said yeti are alleged to actually throw their breasts back over their shoulders while in pursuit of the hapless ghurka.


Just thought you might like to know.
I'll bear that in mind the next time I'm running after my son downhill hehe
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