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post #31 of 121 (permalink) Old 01-08-2017, 09:10 PM
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I've had a rollercoaster relationship with my breasts, lol.

I developed very young and was teased mercilessly in school for it. So I hated them.

Then they made me feel grown up so I loved them.

Then boys started really noticing them, and I mistrusted most boys and men because of past abuse... so I hated them again.

Then I had intensive therapy including some sex therapy, and I started to love them again, and for a while I allowed myself to enjoy the attention I could get with them, lol. I think they were at their peak then... in my 20's ... 36DD.

Then came 3 kids, breastfeeding... they hurt, and were sensitive... they forever changed and I hated them again.

Now, like the stretchmarks on my belly, they kind of tell a story! I love them for feeding my babies, I love them for the pleasure I know I can get from them... but I don't like their asthetics.

Age, 3 kids kids and weight have made them much larger. They have recently come down in size a bit from dieting, but when I finally reach my goal I hope to have a breast reduction and lift done.

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My breasts are medium sized but I've always wished they were bigger. They are 32D which honestly is not as big as it sounds. I want to be a cup size bigger. But my man is happy so I'm happy. He's not a big fan of surgery. I wouldn't do it unless having kids wrecked havoc on them. I've been working out again recently and doing a lot of chest exercises which have given them a bit of a lift, so I'm feeling pretty good about them lately.

I definitely was much more self conscious of them in my late teens/early twenties. I was very thin (but not anorexic or unhealthy) and a B cup and had many women body shame me at the time. Telling me I looked like a little girl and needed to eat more. I was very self conscious about wearing a bikini since I had no cleavage. Looking back at old pics though, I had a great body. Wish I could go back and tell myself to ignore those Bs.
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I suffer with breast pain as a PMS symptom.
They also become swollen too, wearing a bra during these times is excruciatingly painful.
It makes me hate them sometimes.

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Boobs... I love'em. All shapes and sizes.

Anyway, my W uses a push bra when we go out. She has a simple comfortable bra for everyday activity. Some days when home she lets them free!

Once we were on the way to a dinner and a under wire poked through the material and was poking her! My quick thinking, in the truck of my car I retrieved a pair of pliers and surgically removed the offending wire from its sheath. To make all things even I pulled the other wire. Fun part was we were in a shopping center parking lot and I deftly removed the wires while bra as still in place. Thankfully it was dark! Best day I had with my tool ever!

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When I began developing, I prayed I would not be like my mother who was tall and thin with a huge chest. But I ended up being a carbon copy of her. She disliked her build tremendously and passed that right along to me. I've always hated the attention and so I never dressed less than ultra-modestly but there's only so much you can do to conceal when you have that type build. The idea of anyone actually wanting a bigger chest is a foreign concept to me since all I ever wanted was to be smaller. It can be a pain, literally, to carry around a huge chest your entire life. Not to mention the limitation of what type of bra you can wear. I've always wanted to be able to buy lots of different, cute bras in every color but instead I've worn one boring brand of European underwires for decades because they work for me. After cosmetic surgery became common, I had women ask me for the name of my non-existent surgeon so they could have that look too. They found it difficult to believe I disliked it and I found it difficult to believe they wanted it. Obviously, we don't all think the same about that.
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I always was very small, so after I was done having kids I opted for cosmetic surgery. Now I love them!
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when I finally reach my goal I hope to have a breast reduction and lift done.
Do it!!! I had a reduction in the 90's. Best decision i ever made. I would love to get them lifted, the 90's was a long time ago haha. But im still super happy with the size.
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When I began developing, I prayed I would not be like my mother who was tall and thin with a huge chest. But I ended up being a carbon copy of her. She disliked her build tremendously and passed that right along to me. I've always hated the attention and so I never dressed less than ultra-modestly but there's only so much you can do to conceal when you have that type build. The idea of anyone actually wanting a bigger chest is a foreign concept to me since all I ever wanted was to be smaller. It can be a pain, literally, to carry around a huge chest your entire life. Not to mention the limitation of what type of bra you can wear. I've always wanted to be able to buy lots of different, cute bras in every color but instead I've worn one boring brand of European underwires for decades because they work for me. After cosmetic surgery became common, I had women ask me for the name of my non-existent surgeon so they could have that look too. They found it difficult to believe I disliked it and I found it difficult to believe they wanted it. Obviously, we don't all think the same about that.
Have you considered a reduction? Many women like you are so happy with theirs after that surgery.

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The other boob thread got me to thinking about this...

I know that it's most common for us NOT To have perfect boobs. Some have tiny/huge breasts, Some have one bigger than the other, some have large/small nipples, long/flat/inverted nipples, "tube sock" breast, stretch marks, mastectomies whatever. Then comes aging and have babies, breast feeding... it all reeks havoc on our breasts.

Are you self conscious about your breasts? Would you change it if you could? Or do you have perfectly voluptuous perky breasts with perfect nipples? (I hate you ).
My breasts are so far from perfect. But I had the good fortune to be with a real boob man for quite a long time, who loved and adored and paid attention to my breasts so much that over time, I was able to see them the way he did, and was able to feel absolutely beautiful when I was with him. He made me feel so desired all the time, every day (without being a creep about it), that I eventually took for granted the amazing beauty that my breasts exuded.

Even though he loved other breasts too, he never ever made me feel jealous about that. I don't know how to explain that exactly...but I just knew that no matter how many times he ever saw or touched my breasts, he would still want to do it again the next day (or next hour). And no matter what other beautiful breasts he may have looked at during our relationship (sneeking peeks or in porn or whatever) I knew that none were more beautiful than mine in his eyes, he made that clear every day.

Without his participation and engagement with my breasts, I would never have loosened up this much and gotten to use my breasts toward my own sexual fulfillment so well. Before I was with him, I sometimes enjoyed some breast play, but I never felt beautiful and sexy in my own skin (breasts on display) and so I never chilled out with any partner and got into it. I also never had any partner that was really really into it like my ex. It took his desire, lust and encouragement (and even instruction) to get me over my own crap and pull me into the world he saw, where my breasts reigned supreme among a world full of supremely lovely breasts.

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Having someone else believe in us and see our beauty, can positively impact us if we allow it.

I'm not self-conscious about my breasts, I feel content with their appearance. I had the first bra in my class at school. That was embarrassing at the time! I'm a size C. No doubt my husband has played a part in how I feel within myself. He's always said he loves my size, shape and other details. I would have thought he was a boob man the way he is around me. He has this way of looking at my body as though he's seeing it for the first time and kind of marvels at the sight ha ha. Yet he knows how my body responds to him and makes the most of that. If I've muttered a physical insecurity, he will simply say 'You're perfect.' Which is to say I'm perfect... to him. When I allow myself to accept/see the way he describes, well, it's a more fun and relaxed way to be.

When we started dating, he told me he was a 'legs man'. I remember feeling myself cringe, thinking my legs weren't my best physical asset. What I needed to discover/remember, is my version of what 'attractive legs' may be is different to his and perhaps that he can find various legs attractive. While I would have immediately thought of taut dancers legs... he was paying attention to my 'soft shapely' thighs.

Most of my friends are reasonably confident in how they look. Their body types vary. What I notice about these women, is their ability to have pride in their appearance while simultaneously not giving too much of a fvck. And that is great to be around.


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Have you considered a reduction? Many women like you are so happy with theirs after that surgery.
I've thought about it but I have a problem coming out of anesthesia if I'm under for more than a very brief period. Maybe things have improved since my last surgery. I'll ask my doctor. It certainly would be nice to be happy with them finally.
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I have a love - hate relationship with my breasts. They are too big, I hate the shape , and have always wished for that lithe slim look that can only happen with smaller breasts. I hated the attention they garnered and hated the way men treated me because of them. I've considered reduction surgery, but don't want to go under the knife unnecessarily -- and kind of think that I should just suck up my imperfections rather than correct them. (After all, there's no end to the imperfections and if I can't start accepting them, I'm going to spend the rest of my life seeking out surgery. LOL.)

At the same time, I love the feel of them. I love how they flop around when I'm having sex, I love the feeling of them jiggling, and how they feel when they are rubbed in just the right way. They may not look nice, but they feel great! (Another reason, I'm afraid of surgery .... I couldn't stand to lose the sensations)
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Mine are barely a handful and I love them. With the right fabric I can often skip the bra without worrying about nipple pops. When I do go bra-less I can't help but feel a certain sense of freedom and airiness. I love the feel of the warm sun on them and the cool breeze. I love how my partner loves them and has convinced me he'll love them even more after they've been suckled during motherhood. I love how it all makes me feel very feminine, very womanly. I find it fascinating that a couple bumps could bring such pleasure.
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Not as fascinating as guys find them!
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I wish the rest of me were as good as my boobs 50 now and they are still pretty damn fine, 10DD and a really good set. I BF 3 x kids for around 12 months each. I do wear a bra everyday which I am sure helps.

But like many I am not happy with what I have, never been a fan of my butt or legs but at least I have always had and still have a great rack
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