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post #76 of 121 (permalink) Old 01-12-2017, 05:33 PM
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Understood, but its worth trying. It sounds like he likes them. Also, confidence and a smile are more attractive than big boobs any day.

Think of it this way, do you care that he isn't hung like a horse? (well if he is, or you do, just ignore that, bad example...)




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No he hasn't. He plays with them a lot and asks me to flash him which I do oblige. It's just my own insecurities and I don't think he knows how much the size bothers me. I don't like the look of fake boobs either but it's just something I can't get past right now for some reason


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I have a confession of sorts.

Breasts that sag a little, or a lot, even, tend to make me forget what the heck I was doing!

They just do something to my heart.


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I have a confession of sorts.

Breasts that sag a little, or a lot, even, tend to make me forget what the heck I was doing!

They just do something to my heart.
My boob loving ex used to say that seeing a breast fold (the area where the breast folds or "sags" down onto the skin below) was sexy because it just made him think of all that weight....that lovely, heavy breast weight. He really loved to scoop up a breast in his palm and lift it up and down, feeling the weight of it. This was different than fondling the breast. Holding it in a certain way to be able to really feel the weight of it felt very different to me than other types of fondling.

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Nowadays I prefer to just be "in" my body and not think about how it looks to others. How I feel is very different when I just go with my perspective of how I feel instead of caring what others think or how I look.
I love this attitude. Many of my friends are this way. It's something I try to be more aware of for myself.

A significant moment for me was dress-shopping with a friend. Trying one particular dress, I commented negatively about my body / appearance. Friend told me afterwards it made her feel uncomfortable and question her own body because we are similar in size and shape. She said normally she feels quite confident but hearing me saying this about myself, had her questioning her own appearance... it was a flippant comment on my part but hearing this afterwards, really stopped me in my tracks. I wouldn't have thought my comment about the way she looks, so why do that to myself. And to hear how my comment caused her to question herself, left me feeling like sh!t. That lesson stays with me.

I like the boobs I was dealt and the interactions they have experienced! I have other insecurities that can surface... and know they're not worth my energy to even think about. I'm getting there, slowly but surely.

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A very pretty friend at my last job complained that her breasts were sagging so badly that if she wasn't wearing a bra that her breasts would be dragging along the carpet.

A thought flashed through my head and it accidentally reached my mouth. I found myself saying, with feeling, "lucky carpet!"

Colleagues glanced at me and she turned to me, and as I could feel my face flushing with embarrassment she giggled, grinned, and said "Thanks, Matt!"


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post #81 of 121 (permalink) Old 01-13-2017, 02:33 PM
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Women tend to ultra-critical about their appearance -- especially when we're young (if we're lucky, that lessens with age). I'm much more accepting of -- and comfortable in -- my body now that I'm past middle age than I was when I was young and perfect.
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hate mine. hate everything about them. now after nursing babies...horrid. they keep getting worse. if I could afford high quality surgery I would get implants
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I remember working somewhere where and this one woman was very sensitive and did not want dirty old men staring at her chest. One of her male coworkers said, "for the love of god, my boobs are bigger than yours are!" ...and he was correct. At the time I thought that comment was very justified as in "come on we all have bodies that people may stare at" but now that I am a little older I have to imagine that his comment really hurt her.

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Maybe. Maybe she rather liked having small(er) boobs, too! I've come across a few women in my life who are quite proud of their (relatively) small boobs.

There are definitely guys out there (I'm one) who prefer A or B cup boobs. It's been my experience that when some women who are smaller chested figure this out - that some dudes actually LIKE them - they become much more comfortable with it, or even use it to their advantage.

Unfortunately, this seems to be the minority of small chested women, which is a shame

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post #85 of 121 (permalink) Old 01-15-2017, 02:52 PM
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My wife (46) has very perky B cup sized breasts, last night I asked her how she feels about them. She relates that she has always been fine with them, has never disliked them or had any hang ups about them either, before during or after breastfeeding our children.

As to wearing bras, my wife frequently wears them at work and frequently doesn't wear them when she isn't.

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I know you're not asking guys, so sorry katiecrna.

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There are definitely guys out there (I'm one) who prefer A or B cup boobs.
I find smaller women attractive. I know a woman who was small and after breastfeeding and her fitness training she lost considerable volume. She was still attractive but it seriously affected her self image. After augmentation she felt much better about herself and pleased. It was a healthy choice.

Largely I don't think the decision to have cosmetic surgery is based on trying to become what men like (exactly), but moreover a woman seeking a more comfortable appearance and to boost their self esteem. It's a deeply personal decision and hopefully find a good conscientious surgeon.

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Largely I don't think the decision to have cosmetic surgery is based on trying to become what men like (exactly), but moreover a woman seeking a more comfortable appearance and to boost their self esteem. It's a deeply personal decision and hopefully find a good conscientious surgeon.
I agree, and I didn't intend it to mean that women who are smaller want to be bigger, solely for men. I do agree that it's primarily about how one feels about themselves. Sorry if it came across that way.

I've mentioned this on TAM before, but I briefly dated a woman who had very small boobs, and I never saw them Didn't matter that she knew I preferred small. Her shirt and bra never came off (even though everything else did...!) I'm sure if we had dated longer I would have seen them eventually, but it probably would have taken years for her to be comfortable with that.

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I don't think too much about my breasts. They are a decent size 85C (38C) and my husband has named them individually from when we first got married. He loves them
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As a man, I can only state that I absolutely love my wife's breasts. They are natural and they are attached to my wife. What is there not to love?

While dating, I have seen so many variations, and all were attractive to me in their own way. The only ones I don't like are fake/augmented ones. When I want to be with a woman, I want to be with HER, as in her natural self, not an injected and modified person.

Again, that's just me. If my wife could only feel good about herself if she got a boob job, then I would support her, but I would hope her self worth would be based on something other than how perky or large her breasts are.

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As a man, I can only state that I absolutely love my wife's breasts. They are natural and they are attached to my wife. What is there not to love?

While dating, I have seen so many variations, and all were attractive to me in their own way. The only ones I don't like are fake/augmented ones. When I want to be with a woman, I want to be with HER, as in her natural self, not an injected and modified person.

Again, that's just me. If my wife could only feel good about herself if she got a boob job, then I would support her, but I would hope her self worth would be based on something other than how perky or large her breasts are.

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I get what you're saying but I don't know how much judgment women who get breast enhancements deserve. It's not something I would do, because I don't want to teach my son that a woman has to have giant balloon breasts that don't move in order to feel confident. Kids notice appearance changes more than you'd think. But if something about your appearance bothers you, and enough to want to undergo surgery, obviously it bothers you a lot. Surgery used to be something I dismissed outright, but in the end, if it's not my body, it's none of my business.
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