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post #91 of 121 (permalink) Old 01-16-2017, 11:46 AM
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I get what you're saying but I don't know how much judgment women who get breast enhancements deserve. It's not something I would do, because I don't want to teach my son that a woman has to have giant balloon breasts that don't move in order to feel confident. Kids notice appearance changes more than you'd think. But if something about your appearance bothers you, and enough to want to undergo surgery, obviously it bothers you a lot. Surgery used to be something I dismissed outright, but in the end, if it's not my body, it's none of my business.
I agree with what you say, and it's up to each woman to make that decision. I'm not coming down on anyone making that decision. I'm only saying that My preference is for natural, regardless of size or firmness. That's just my preference. Just as some women may prefer circumcised or uncircumcised, or would prefer a guy who isn't into plastic surgery for themselves, it's just my preference.

I was a teen and young adult in the 80s. During that time it seemed that Everyone was getting boob jobs, botox injections, and wearing way too much makeup. I figured out fairly early that I personally like natural better than fake/modified or hidden (makeup).

Again, this is no slam against women who want a boob job.

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I put breast enlargement in the same category as wearing niqabs ro burkas. Women have every right to do so and I don't judge them for their choice, but I hope that they are doing it because *they* want to not because they have been pressured to do so.

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I get what you're saying but I don't know how much judgment women who get breast enhancements deserve. It's not something I would do, because I don't want to teach my son that a woman has to have giant balloon breasts that don't move in order to feel confident. Kids notice appearance changes more than you'd think. But if something about your appearance bothers you, and enough to want to undergo surgery, obviously it bothers you a lot. Surgery used to be something I dismissed outright, but in the end, if it's not my body, it's none of my business.
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As a man, I can only state that I absolutely love my wife's breasts. They are natural and they are attached to my wife. What is there not to love?

While dating, I have seen so many variations, and all were attractive to me in their own way. The only ones I don't like are fake/augmented ones. When I want to be with a woman, I want to be with HER, as in her natural self, not an injected and modified person.

Again, that's just me. If my wife could only feel good about herself if she got a boob job, then I would support her, but I would hope her self worth would be based on something other than how perky or large her breasts are.

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I'm with TX-SC on this, except that I've never been comfortable with the word "boob", very comfortable with "breasts" . I have no interest in augmented breasts, but don't judge. I have wondered whether augmented breasts can be as sensitive to breast play...
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Perky is over rated. The older I get the more enticing I find droopy and dangly .
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I'm with TX-SC on this, except that I've never been comfortable with the word "boob", very comfortable with "breasts" . I have no interest in augmented breasts, but don't judge. I have wondered whether augmented breasts can be as sensitive to breast play...
Most are just as sensitive as before surgery. There can be complications sometimes but typically, all the nerve endings recover and the sensitivity is the same as before. In the case of complicated surgeries and reconstruction and multiple surgeries this is less often the case...but for most standard augmentations, the sensitivity is the same.

Though I've heard many times that some women who have them feel even more sensitivity because they now enjoy their breasts so much more and are more able to get into them with a partner.

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The other boob thread got me to thinking about this...

I know that it's most common for us NOT To have perfect boobs. Some have tiny/huge breasts, Some have one bigger than the other, some have large/small nipples, long/flat/inverted nipples, "tube sock" breast, stretch marks, mastectomies whatever. Then comes aging and have babies, breast feeding... it all reeks havoc on our breasts.

Are you self conscious about your breasts? Would you change it if you could? Or do you have perfectly voluptuous perky breasts with perfect nipples? (I hate you ).
'Perfect' boobs? Who decided what 'perfect' boobs are?? Some man publishing porn somewhere??

Like other aspects of my appearance, I am quite happy with them just the way they are. I have never dyed my hair, have never had and will never have cosmetic surgery, and rarely EVER wear make up. I keep myself clean and tidy. Beyond that, if you don't like the way I look that's your problem, not mine!!

Stopping to care about what other people think about my appearance has been one of, if not THE, most liberating things I have ever done.

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Oh, and I never wear a bra.

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I would never have cosmetic surgery, and I think its sad that so many people feel they must do that to be accepted.

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'Perfect' boobs? Who decided what 'perfect' boobs are?? Some man publishing porn somewhere??

Like other aspects of my appearance, I am quite happy with them just the way they are. I have never dyed my hair, have never had and will never have cosmetic surgery, and rarely EVER wear make up. I keep myself clean and tidy. Beyond that, if you don't like the way I look that's your problem, not mine!!

Stopping to care about what other people think about my appearance has been one of, if not THE, most liberating things I have ever done.

The older I get the less I care what others think. Like you I wouldnt have surgery, and I dont wear make up. My husband loves me as I am and would hate it if I had cosmetic surgery.
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My desire for reduction surgery has little to do with cosmetics TBH.

I've just always been uncomfortable as being top-heavy puts a lot of strain on the back.



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My desire for reduction surgery has little to do with cosmetics TBH.

I've just always been uncomfortable as being top-heavy puts a lot of strain on the back.



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Thats more medical than cosmetic.
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I can't stand when people hate on those who want or have gotten cosmetic surgery. It's not about what others think, it's about what I think. I have one life so why not.
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I can't stand when people hate on those who want or have gotten cosmetic surgery. It's not about what others think, it's about what I think. I have one life so why not.
I cant stand it when women think so little of themselves that they feel the need to have major surgery with all the terrible risks and costs, just to conform and be more attractive to the male sex. I would love to see women like and accept their bodies as they are and to be their own person.
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