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post #106 of 121 (permalink) Old 01-26-2017, 05:39 PM Thread Starter
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I cant stand it when women think so little of themselves that they feel the need to have major surgery with all the terrible risks and costs, just to conform and be more attractive to the male sex. I would love to see women like and accept their bodies as they are and to be their own person.


I think that's ignorant sorry. It has nothing to do with the male sex. You shouldn't SHOULD all over people it's very judgmental.

Why accept something that you can change if you have a choice? Accept that you have cancer or choose to remove the tumor? Accept you have coronary artery disease or get a stent? Accept you have to wear glasses all the time or get lasix? Accept you have large breast or get a reduction? Accept you have bad skin or wear foundation? Accept you have gray hair or dye it? Life is short. We don't need to just accept things. I like to take control of my life and optimize my health, looks, and my life. Some people say they accept things... when in reality they have given up on life and just don't care anymore.

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Guarantee you that if there was such a thing as a safe, practical and fully functioning PENIS ENLARGEMENT surgery, every man you know would be at the surgeon's office TODAY.

And would that be to impress us women?

Hell no.

It would be to be the biggest swinging d*ck.

That day will come. And the world as we know it will be over.

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I think that's ignorant sorry. It has nothing to do with the male sex. You shouldn't SHOULD all over people it's very judgmental.

Why accept something that you can change if you have a choice? Accept that you have cancer or choose to remove the tumor? Accept you have coronary artery disease or get a stent? Accept you have to wear glasses all the time or get lasix? Accept you have large breast or get a reduction? Accept you have bad skin or wear foundation? Accept you have gray hair or dye it? Life is short. We don't need to just accept things. I like to take control of my life and optimize my health, looks, and my life. Some people say they accept things... when in reality they have given up on life and just don't care anymore.
Not at all, I have learnt to accept and like myself as I am and I care about life very much.I know loads of women who are the same.
You cant possibly compare a life saving operation with a boob job!! And yes its nearly always done to be more sexually attractive to men. If men were attracted more to smaller boobs few would have such an operation.
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Guarantee you that if there was such a thing as a safe, practical and fully functioning PENIS ENLARGEMENT surgery, every man you know would be at the surgeon's office TODAY.

And would that be to impress us women?

Hell no.

It would be to be the biggest swinging d*ck.

That day will come. And the world as we know it will be over.
They really wouldnt. Many men are secure in themselves and wouldnt need to do that or want surgery that was cosmetic. Of course they would do it for women and sex with women, no one else would see their penis.
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I think it's easy to accept yourself when your bits and pieces fall under the bell shaped curve.
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They really wouldnt. Many men are secure in themselves and wouldnt need to do that or want surgery that was cosmetic. Of course they would do it for women and sex with women, no one else would see their penis.
How about check out my post in the mens section.

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The other boob thread got me to thinking about this...

I know that it's most common for us NOT To have perfect boobs. Some have tiny/huge breasts, Some have one bigger than the other, some have large/small nipples, long/flat/inverted nipples, "tube sock" breast, stretch marks, mastectomies whatever. Then comes aging and have babies, breast feeding... it all reeks havoc on our breasts.

Are you self conscious about your breasts? Would you change it if you could? Or do you have perfectly voluptuous perky breasts with perfect nipples? (I hate you ).
Thank you for this. You have confirmed my suspicion - that women are FAR more critical of their breasts than men are.

For me, and my pals seem to be on the same page, what I find important in a pair of breasts, in order, are:
1) They are a part of a woman for whom I feel strongly attracted
2) She likes that I appreciate them and gives me adequate access to enjoy them - as well as the rest of her body, mind, soul and heart.

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I can't stand when people hate on those who want or have gotten cosmetic surgery. It's not about what others think, it's about what I think. I have one life so why not.
I don't hate on women who have a boob job. I simply prefer natural boobs, regardless of their size. It's simply a personal preference. There are women who prefer circumcised men, and women who prefer uncircumcised men, and women who don't care. There are men who love fake boobs, and men who don't, and men who don't care. I just happen to like them real.

If I met a woman and dated her then found out she had a boob job, I would not break up with her over it. But, I would not appreciate them as much as I would unaltered boobs.

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If a women wants to alter her body she has the right obviously. The Reason behind this choice is complex and it's ignorant to say it's solely to please men. I wholeheartedly disagree with this and find it offensive. I have been my husband for 15 years and I have always wanted breast implants and I have never been shy to show him my breasts. I want them because I want them. Has absolutely nothing to do with him.

I would love to have normal natural breasts but that wasn't the hand I was dealt with. I was dealt with a hand that I don't like, and thankfully I can alter that hand easily with surgery.

I'm sure most men prefer natural. But guess what? Some men prefer larger breasts, some prefer smaller breasts. And I'm sure men who like larger breasts would prefer their women with large fake breasts as opposed to small natural. He probably wouldn't of even went past the first date if she had small breast.

The point is, how we look, and how we want to look affects who we attract and who we want to attract. I have very small breast. The last thing I want to do is attract a man who loves large breasts, (he wouldn't want me either). So I want to be and look who I want to be and who I authentically am (on the inside). So I will attract a person who genuinely likes the person I am. I have very small breasts, I am thin with an athletic body. I am some peoples cup of tea, and I am not others. I made it very clear in the beginning of our relationship that that is who I am. I did not make myself look curvy, I did not stuff my bra or wear spanks or whatever. My husband has to be a man that likes thin, non curvy women because that is who I am and who I will always be. Thankfully I am my husbands cup of tea and that's why we're married.

For the record, I want to get implants to get a full B cup. So I am not going from small to large breasts, I'm going from non existent breasts to average to below average size breasts.

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katiecrna, seems reasonable to me .
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I had a breast augmentation about a year and a half ago.
I was originally a 32B. After nursing for a total of 4.5 years, and fluctuating between an A and D cup, 3 X's, I was left with nothing but some skin and nipples.
They surprisingly didn't really sag. They were just pretty much non-existent. Still perfectly sensitive though.

My husband never said one negative word about them. He did voice once that it was cool because he got to experience me with many different types of breasts...and now, augmented ones.
He was not very excited for me to do it, but was supportive after MUCH time and effort explaining to him how I felt.

Considering I was very small to start, I was slightly concerned with the potential look and feel after healing was complete. I did tons of research and finally found a doctor that not only created a very natural look, but natural feel too...AND could create cleavage where there was none. He honestly is a miracle worker. Very expensive, but I wouldn't ever considered being cheap when it comes to my one and only body.

Now I wear a 32DD, but look like a nice full C. They fit my body perfectly and balance my shape out well. They are amazing considering what I started with.

What has pleased me the most is how soft and squishy they are. People automatically think of 'bolt-ons' or hard, stiff implants. That's not always the case.
They bounce and move very much like a natural breast. I NEVER imagined that could happen.
My husband was worried through the healing process that they would remain firm, (which they were at the beginning.) With massaging and the proper care, they turned out so, so nice.
I have always been confident in who I am, inside. I have always loved my breasts and the incredible ways they have served me..and my children.
My self-image, however, took a hit with the deflation of that very intimate part. I never felt I had to do it for anyone. I *wanted* to do it just for me. I earned the right to be happy when looking at my reflection.
We all have that right: )

Important to note- I have one patch of skin that lost some sensation after surgery that I will likely never get back. This is something that needs to be considered when choosing a doctor. Even with careful consideration, numbness may occur anyway.
As for nipple sensation, it is 100% normal, thank God! They are my gateway to massive sexual pleasure.
Although I always loved my breasts to be played with, I love it even more now because I am happy with what I am seeing along with the delicious sensations my husband gives me. Zero regrets.
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My husband would hate it if I got cosmetic surgery. He prefers me as I am naturally, and I think its lovely when women can like and accept their bodies as they are. Its refreshing, and going against the flow of today's world. I have only even met one lady who had cosmetic surgery and that was a minor op on her eyes.
I have heard of so many horror stories of things that went wrong, so many of these ladies regretted it and advised others against it, and had to have several ops to put it right and were left with terrible scarring and worse boobs than they had originally.
I would also hate if either of my daughters ever felt they wanted it, but I doubt they will. I have never heard them mention it and then seem happy with themselves as they are.
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I'm happy for you Diana. We should all do what is right for us.
My husband also thought he'd hate for me to have any cosmetic surgery. He was very hesitant. Today, he definitely doesn't hate it.
He loved my body then and he does now too.
The mere fact that it belongs to me= He loves it.
He is happy to see me happy. It's a win-win.
Fyi- small breasts are coveted by men as well.
To believe women mainly do it to please men is not only judgemental, but short-sighted. Some women may fall into that category, but not most or all.
Unless you've been there, you truly don't know.
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Three of the sexiest women I had the pleasure of their company - were "A" cup or less - Big boobs are no fun when horseback riding or boating in a small boat on a windy day. OTOH, I dated a few with 3D or larger - they were more self conscience about their size than the "little" ones. I don't try to understand.
To me and a lot of my life's acquaintances - the total package is what mattered. Personally, if a Man (boy?) picks a prospective mate and boobs are a major issue, I do hope she finds out ahead matrimony. Women (girls?) have brains and personalities - FAR more important!!!! the most attractive traits obviate boobs: Being feminine (I have a hard time with defining that) and having self confidence. Sometimes I find larger waist to hip ratio more attention getting than
a large torso. I hope I didn't offend anyone.
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