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Old 01-14-2009, 12:32 AM   #16 (permalink)
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GaSoccer,

What are you doing with all of this data you are collecting???
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Old 01-14-2009, 05:10 AM   #17 (permalink)
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and i just love it all. i like being told what to do, i like taking control.
i try and get a 50/50 situation on this.
its helps to both feel needed.
although i do admit to putin on real handcuffs and i got to rough that the cuffs made his wrists slightly bleed.
i think he was more concerned about me leaving him there tied to the bed.
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Old 01-14-2009, 09:22 AM   #18 (permalink)
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i think he was more concerned about me leaving him there tied to the bed.
oh you naughty girl....

Martino...not collecting anything, just letting people chat the subject....as you can see, it is not so uncommon....more people do it then is lead to beleieve.

I think it is healthy in a marriage to explore new options and new curiousities as long as BOTH of you are on board and willing to experiment.

now me and my wife need a day off together.....
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Old 01-14-2009, 11:45 AM   #19 (permalink)
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oh you naughty girl....

Martino...not collecting anything, just letting people chat the subject....as you can see, it is not so uncommon....more people do it then is lead to beleieve.

I think it is healthy in a marriage to explore new options and new curiousities as long as BOTH of you are on board and willing to experiment.

now me and my wife need a day off together.....
i just wanted to say that GAsoccerman is a credit to this site.
i like the threads you start. you help take away the low times, because you make me smile and laugh.
keep up with the threads. i love em
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Old 01-14-2009, 02:46 PM   #20 (permalink)
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Hubby and I really only started enjoying sex as a couple when he began to become more dominant. At the begining it was me that initiated sex all the time and that took the lead. Then I tried using the whole ****ty little nympho routine that needed shagging among other stuff. It was quite hard for him to do as it wasn't something he had really experienced before. It took him a while to get his confidence up and to realise that he didn't need to ask permission before he touched me or initiated sex.

There's lots of little tricks and non verbal signals you can give if you want to encourage your partner. Like refusing to take your clothes off, making him do it while you progressivly put more and more effort into wriggling away. It's a bit more physical but fun.

I have mates that are in relationships where the dominant partner shifts around but to be honest if I'm in a place sexually where I'm satisfied I don't really feel the need to change.
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Old 01-14-2009, 07:50 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Soccerman,

Just teasing you a little bit! relax it's all good....
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Old 01-14-2009, 10:20 PM   #22 (permalink)
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during working hours i lead in the office.. in the bedroom i like to be led around....hee hee
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Old 01-15-2009, 01:24 AM   #23 (permalink)
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My girlfriends and I have often said, if he wants me, I wish he would just take me. Forget the freakin flowers- making dinner, having a shower, whatever. Show me how much you want me, can't wait another minute... I don't necessarily need to be romanced, I just need a good... well... you know. Many guys think all we ever need is flowers or romance... well, not all of us do!!
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My girlfriends and I have often said, if he wants me, I wish he would just take me. Forget the freakin flowers- making dinner, having a shower, whatever. Show me how much you want me, can't wait another minute... I don't necessarily need to be romanced, I just need a good... well... you know. Many guys think all we ever need is flowers or romance... well, not all of us do!!
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Old 01-15-2009, 01:56 AM   #25 (permalink)
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voivod I would much rather be shown by the desire, the passion, the 'that's my woman and I need her now'. Flowers do have their place though... once in awhile!! But the animalistic primal need... yeah, that does it for me more!
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Old 01-15-2009, 06:07 AM   #26 (permalink)
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But the animalistic primal need... yeah,
hit the nail on the head.
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Old 01-15-2009, 09:05 AM   #28 (permalink)
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Is this why my wife just loves it when I grab her in the kitchen and take her in the hallway where the kids can't see us and gte naughty with her, to the point of....quickly go upstairs to finish....
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Old 01-15-2009, 11:25 AM   #29 (permalink)
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You got it GAsoccerman... take us back to when we first started dating and you were dying to get your hands on us. Show us how much you desire it. Many of us have a naughty side, some just won't admit it outright!! It's a total turn on to be so desired by someone that much!
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Old 01-15-2009, 11:55 AM   #30 (permalink)
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We love to take turns being the one in control!! But I love it when he lets me know im his dirty **** and tells me what he wants!!
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