You got it GAsoccerman... take us back to when we first started dating and you were dying to get your hands on us. Show us how much you desire it. Many of us have a naughty side, some just won't admit it outright!! It's a total turn on to be so desired by someone that much!
I can have fun in both roles. But, if I'm honest, dominating is fun in the way playing Uno is fun (I like Uno). But being dominated is HOT and sexy (though it's hard to find the man that can be a loving and trustworthy sexual leader - plus I have trust issues, so I feel much safer dominating, but it's less erotic).