Husband crossing the line or is it just me?
Question for you all, my husband is constantly "groping" me (at least that's how I feel). Anytime my husband touches me he is always grabbing my breasts, grabbing my butt and just rubbing on me in some way. Sometimes I don't mind it sometimes it p*sses me off because I feel like all I'm here for is his groping pleasure! I will be cooking and he walks up behind me and literally both of his hands are on my breasts and he is squeezing them and kissing my neck, basically holding me tight to the point where I can barely move, and then as he lets go squeezes my butt. Most of the time I feel partly violated, he doesn't seem to respect the fact that I don't want to constantly be touched.
So my question is how would that make you feel? Would that make you feel loved, attractive, etc? Would you be okay with your husband or BF doing that to you?
The whole sex/intimacy thing has been an issue with my husband and I for about 2 years now, probably longer. He has this huge thing about sex and feeling loved. It has to be sex for him to feel loved, apparently snuggling and hand holding doesn't really count but "it helps a little". I'm over it because we fight about this constantly, because I am the total opposite. I don't need physical love, I actually do not like people rubbing on me. When we discuss him touching me as described above; he says "Fine then I won't touch you anymore and I won't ask you for sex". Then 2 days later we fight about sex again or I worry that he's cheating, again!
Just trying to get an idea of what other women make of what I am calling "groping". Having their partner physically touch them, etc.