Re: Ladies, if your husband *does* care about your weight,
I guess I like feeling free in my marriage. Or as free as a person can feel in marriage.
I would hate to feel like I had to weigh a certain amount to stay married. I would rather just free us both up to find people we felt completely comfortable with, however they are.
And now that I have been married to someone who likes me just the way I am, I don't think I could accept a marriage any other way.
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man