Re: Ladies, What is a "good lover" ?
Another issue with that is if the couple broke up, if she was angry/vengeful, she could go to the police and claim he was violent with her and tried to choke her many times. Good luck to him trying to claim it was in sex and that she enjoyed it.
If I was with a man who wanted to do this I would run a mile never to look back. I couldn't have any respect for a violent man.
Actually...most of the time it's the woman who is 'thrilled' by the idea that her lover not only has full control over her sexual pleasure but also, potentially, over her life, in that orgasmic moment. The French call the orgasm a "small death". Imagine the amount of trust that goes into this if the woman was still to enjoy it. I'm sure @Keke24
has a better take on it.
I have never tried actually choking anyone but I noticed many times that whenever I placed my hand on my wife's neck (first time was by chance, in the spare of the moment during sex) and hold it relatively tightly, she squeals from pleasure. Same if I cover her face with my palm so that she can hardly breathe (the second time, it wasn't ME who put the hand there...).
It's really difficult to please you women. The balance between a 'great lover' and 'running away from serial killer' seems a tight one to master
The demand for adventure and pushing the boundaries is definitely not imagined by us males (nor spread like infection from porn). It's a real thing.
Last edited by inmyprime; 02-02-2017 at 05:08 AM.