Honestly before coming on TAM, I had zero awareness of the turn-off towards porn by some women. My sisters all watched porn, in fact my interest in it started when the oldest shared that she had used it to teach herself to cum. Much later, after many frustrating failed attempts, I too was able to cum with it playing in the background. Similarly, close girlfriends also make reference to porn and we compare/share some of our favourite scenes.
So in my experience I really haven't come across women who find porn destructive. I agree that men who get addicted to it introduce a very unhealthy dynamic to a relationship. I would really be curious what percentage of women have had the experience of it destroying their sex life, what percentage of men/women find it generally unappealing, what percentage of men find themselves getting addicted to it and what percentage of women find it useful like myself.
I know loads of women who don't look at porn and many men too. Its so damaging to the one who uses it and to so many marriages. I know 2 marriages myself that ended due to porn use, and in 60% of divorces now porn used is cited as the reason for it.
Addiction to porn is a massive problem, I have heard of many women whose husbands wont have sex with them any more, due to their addiction, and others who cant even get an erection any more unless they look at porn.
Its also having such a damaging effect on our children now as well, skewing their minds as to what a loving, caring, functional, unselfish relationship should be. Its making them see girls as objects for their own lusts instead of valuable people to be respected and cared about. Many of them are also into violent porn, and their young developing minds are being terribly damaged.
I fear for their future. Who knows what they may do to women.
Also many women in porn films were sexually abused as children, many don't even like sex let alone love it. Poor women who think so little of themselves that they have resorted to doing that for a living. The only winners(for now anyway) are those who make it and create it.
For those who look at porn, would you like your 18 year old daughter to be in porn films?To be lusted over by so many older men? They are all someones child.