Re: Ladies, What is a "good lover" ?
I think that for me, just being confident in what you're doing is a big hit! Willingness to try different positions and different things makes a good lover. And just having a general knowledge of how to move your own body. For me, my H doesn't touch on any of these; he's not overly confident, and really is only comfortable in 2-3 positions. There are things that I love, but he's not willing to try, and he's not able to move his hips, so when he's on top, and trying to move quickly, he kind of bounces his entire torso, bending his arms, which makes me giggle because it looks like he's doing pushups. :-D If we do stay together, this is something that will NEED to change, like 180 degrees.