Join Date: Apr 2015
Location: Valhalla (Or the Northeast USA)
Re: Smoking dilemna
Was smoking something that he has been doing since the 1st time you met him? If so I can see why he would be hesitant to change (i.e. you accepted him for it back then, so why now does he have to change).
Smoking is a no no for me, I wouldn't even consider getting involved with someone who did, so if suddenly at some point during our relationship they picked up the habit, that would be a dealbreaker (but this may be a different scenario then yours if it was something he has been doing from the start).