Re: Female Orgasms
OP, I apologize if you've already answered this but where is your mind during sex with your husband? What thoughts are you having? Are they organized thoughts or are they a flow of images that are relatively meaningless as you focus on the sensations your body feels? There is no right or wrong answer here BTW.
Now anyswer those same questions during the times your masturbate? Are they different? If so what's different? Be as specific as you're comfortable being.
I noticed you seem to orgasm best on your stomach which means you like pressure more than friction. Have you ever masurbated while grinding on your husband? Leg, knee, his package while he is still dressed, his hand laying passively on his leg? If you haven't done this, would you be comfortable doing it?
The stomach grinding is a protective pose but it's also a natural flow from childhood when girls realize laying on something and moving their bodies feels good.
"Some women are blessed with multi-orgasmic ability for a reason and I'm damn sure not going to waste a blessing" ~FrenchFry
"Vaginas are tricky creatures." ~Lucy999