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post #61 of 64 (permalink) Old 02-03-2017, 06:39 PM
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I'm pretty sure we used to have an original and now have the newer one. No noticeable difference in effectiveness. Obviously YMMV.


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I have heard that USED original Hitachi's can go for as much as $400 online. Allegedly, the original model is better and more durable, but I've never used one and can only go by what I have heard through rl friends and online chats.

The way some women talk about the original, you'd think it was a gift from God they will be buried with.





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post #62 of 64 (permalink) Old 02-05-2017, 12:23 PM
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OP, I apologize if you've already answered this but where is your mind during sex with your husband? What thoughts are you having? Are they organized thoughts or are they a flow of images that are relatively meaningless as you focus on the sensations your body feels? There is no right or wrong answer here BTW.

Now anyswer those same questions during the times your masturbate? Are they different? If so what's different? Be as specific as you're comfortable being.

I noticed you seem to orgasm best on your stomach which means you like pressure more than friction. Have you ever masurbated while grinding on your husband? Leg, knee, his package while he is still dressed, his hand laying passively on his leg? If you haven't done this, would you be comfortable doing it?

The stomach grinding is a protective pose but it's also a natural flow from childhood when girls realize laying on something and moving their bodies feels good.

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I've asked and begged my wife to touch herself and masturbate herself for me as part of foreplay, you'd think I asked her to strip in the middle of a church service or something. We've talked and we both know that growing up we masturbated it's kind of a rite of passage or something. She finally calmed down enough to explain that she would just die of embarrassment doing that in front of me. I tried to explain that her directing my movements and telling me how she want's me to move here or there during oral isn't any real difference. Any clue how I might talk her into it
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I've asked and begged my wife to touch herself and masturbate herself for me as part of foreplay, you'd think I asked her to strip in the middle of a church service or something. We've talked and we both know that growing up we masturbated it's kind of a rite of passage or something. She finally calmed down enough to explain that she would just die of embarrassment doing that in front of me. I tried to explain that her directing my movements and telling me how she want's me to move here or there during oral isn't any real difference. Any clue how I might talk her into it
You won't talk her into it because inhibitions don't just go away. They have to be slowly and methodically overcome.

Next time you're in foreplay and you're touching her lady parts, take her hand and slowly bring it down there with your hand. Or, ask her to take hold of your wrist while you touch her. Once SHE is comfortable with her hand being on top of your hand, place her hand down first and then you manipulate her hand to miminck the same motions your hand was doing. She may find this isn't so bad once you put her hand there but putting her own hand there might take a while. She may tolerate her hand being there for a short time only and then feel a loss of arousal because she is too inhibited still. With your encouragement, by saying sexy things while you are manipulating her hand, she will probably overcome her inhibition well enough.

But asking her to jump right in and give you a show isn't going to happen unless/until she slowly works her way up to it.

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