Ladies, what do you value most? Help me understand what matters most to you and why!
Please rank the following items with 1 being MOST IMPORTANT and higher numbers being LESS IMPORTANT. Again, your explanation for the ranking will be very helpful! a)
Financial security b)
Good relationship (communication, trust, etc.)
c) Good family life (SO good with kids, etc.) d)
Good sex life
e) Good social life (either couples' friends, women's night out, etc.)
f) Something else (wealth, personal career, hobbies, ???)
and sexual intimacy
are all paramount to me.. all are needed or it all falls apart... being able to afford to live, pay our bills, have a stable home life ...without these...the stress would shoot to the heavens, fighting, ruining everything else- even if they were good! ..
The same with physical intimacy.. if he didn't show desire, that need to be close, wanting me...I'd grow cold and angry...and start thinking over the fence, what am I missing! Our communication, sharing our day, inviting the other into our world, talking things over, going forth as a team...without this.. we would start feeling disconnected.. running to others to fill that void.. not good..
So those 3 are on the top for me..
4. Good family life.. time with kids.. taking family vacations.. making treasured memories.. also very important.
5. Social life -this would be the bottom for us.. we both enjoy spending time together.. he has no need for Guys night out -sees a few men at work.. enough buddy time, so he would say..... I was never big on "Girls night out"..... sure I get together with friends occasionally but it's not a fixed "do this so often" type of thing or I miss it terribly...