Re: How can I become a man of mystey?
Read some of his threads Jld,then ask me is it realistic.
I don't think it is realistic to ask him to be someone else. And this whole "be a mystery man" thing is ridiculous.
Real "mystery men" are not that way because someone told them to be. That is just who they are.
Mr. S, please seek professional therapy. Please seek IRL support. You need more than what TAM can provide. At least imo.
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man