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post #31 of 58 (permalink) Old 02-07-2017, 09:33 AM
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Re: How can I become a man of mystey?

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Seriously Jld,this guy calls himself Mr Strongman and he is here day after day asking the most inane questions.I can't believe you are answering him with honest advice.He never listens to anyone.If you check back we allready differed in our opinion about him a few weeks ago but here he is with another ridiculous question.
If I offended you with my humour comment it was not intended,I really didn't think you were being serious with your answer.
No, I was not offended. And yes, I always give sincere advice.

Mr. S needs help. He is starving for love. What would it hurt to try to help him love and accept himself? It is a low risk option.


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How can I become a Man of Mystery? Men of mystery really have a lot of things going for them. First of all, they keep everyone, especially the women guessing. And that works in a man's favor. I can think of no other formum here better to ask this question than the woman's form.
Well Mr. StrongMan, 'tis a grand day! For now Mr. MysteryMan (*bows*) is here to answer your question, despite being of the wrong gender!

Anyway, if I learnt anything with current girlfriend, is that the mystery game, well, it actually works, but I found out by accident:

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I wouldn't say I have been dishonest with her, that's just not my style, but I don't like laying the cards on the table, and I keep my promises, one thing she noticed.
Mystery

Now when trying to piece together what I did that actually worked:

I maintained mystery, let her know about me slowly, didn't rush anything, didn't scare her off. So that's one aspect that logically, makes sense why she became attracted, as I wasn't needy or over-bearing. Also when I refuse to answer some questions, telling her playfully its a secret, it lets her imagination run wild, as well as makes her more curious, as well as showed a fun, non-serious side, all of which only worked to my benefit. At the same time, a mystery man can be seen as untrustworthy, or dishonest, yet I earned her trust the old fashioned way (and arguably the only true way); by earning it through time.

So yeah, the mystery game works - from my experience at least. Your results may still vary!
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Seriously Jld,this guy calls himself Mr Strongman and he is here day after day asking the most inane questions.I can't believe you are answering him with honest advice.He never listens to anyone.If you check back we allready differed in our opinion about him a few weeks ago but here he is with another ridiculous question.

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Some people come here for help.

Not everyone is here for the entertainment.
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How can I become a Man of Mystery? Men of mystery really have a lot of things going for them. First of all, they keep everyone, especially the women guessing. And that works in a man's favor. I can think of no other formum here better to ask this question than the woman's form.
Keep your big trap shut!

How does the saying go? " It is Better to Keep Quiet and Be Thought a Fool Than to Speak and Remove all Doubt".

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

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Some people come here for help.

Not everyone is here for the entertainment.
Coming from you that's priceless.
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Coming from you that's priceless.


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No, I was not offended. And yes, I always give sincere advice.

Mr. S needs help. He is starving for love. What would it hurt to try to help him love and accept himself? It is a low risk option.
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You have grown so much. You have. Much more mature. Not taking sides as often.

And these compliments are from my kitchen, my "Peter Pan" cookery persona'.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

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To start, dress like this ...

Finally a response I can take seriously!!
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Some people come here for help.

Not everyone is here for the entertainment.
Check out the op's last post and tell me HE is being serious.
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The insults on this thread are really not necessary.

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Re: How can I become a man of mystey?

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How can I become a Man of Mystery?
Next time you shart, go about the rest of your day purposely concealing the real reason that you are walking a little different and don't allow anyone to get downwind from you.

That should do it!

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The insults on this thread are really not necessary.
First off... An international man of mystery would have a way better comeback than that!

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My mom warned me that if someone picks on me it is because they like me. You guys need to realize I'm taken and stop being so dang flirtatious with me!
Second off... Oh sht am I flirting with you?
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Re: How can I become a man of mystey?

Mysterious isn't the opposite of needy and dependent. It seems that what you are looking for is to be a strong, healthy man who knows his own mind rather than a man who depends on his wife to define him.

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It's not so much hiding where you are going as being independent enough to make a plan without consulting anyone. Prove that you can have fun independent of her participation.
I guess that depends on the status of the relationship. If it was just dating then fine go ahead and make your own plans. Here though we are considerate of each other and will check in first to see if it conflicts with other engagements then if not go ahead and do something independent of each other.
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What sane woman wants to be with a man that keeps her guessing? Nothing would make me feel stabby more than a man that can't speak his mind and wants to be "mysterious".
I love that comment,make me feel stabby lol.
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