How can I become a Man of Mystery? Men of mystery really have a lot of things going for them. First of all, they keep everyone, especially the women guessing. And that works in a man's favor. I can think of no other formum here better to ask this question than the woman's form.
Well Mr. StrongMan, 'tis a grand day! For now Mr. MysteryMan (*bows*) is here to answer your question, despite being of the wrong gender!
Anyway, if I learnt anything with current girlfriend, is that the mystery game, well, it actually works, but I found out by accident:
I wouldn't say I have been dishonest with her, that's just not my style, but I don't like laying the cards on the table, and I keep my promises, one thing she noticed.
Now when trying to piece together what I did that actually worked:
I maintained mystery, let her know about me slowly, didn't rush anything, didn't scare her off. So that's one aspect that logically, makes sense why she became attracted, as I wasn't needy or over-bearing. Also when I refuse to answer some questions, telling her playfully its a secret, it lets her imagination run wild, as well as makes her more curious, as well as showed a fun, non-serious side, all of which only worked to my benefit. At the same time, a mystery man can be seen as untrustworthy, or dishonest, yet I earned her trust the old fashioned way (and arguably the only true way); by earning it through time.
So yeah, the mystery game works - from my experience at least. Your results may still vary!