Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: (n) a particular place or position.
Re: Do or have you openly masturbated to orgasm in front of your spouse
Post menopause our drives are no longer so nicely matched. One way we cope is "I say when, she says what", and occasionally that what is I take care of myself while she merely provides the eye candy and a place to finish off on. It's better than angrily beating off in the shower as it does provide a emotional connection, plus often it leads to her taking a "more active role".
Sigh, my wife gives me the speaking treatment.