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View Poll Results: Do you regularly masturbate to orgasm in front of your spouse as part of forplay
Yes 20 47.62%
No 12 28.57%
We have talked about it but haven't worked up the nerve yet 5 11.90%
I'd like to but am afraid of what my spouse would think of me 2 4.76%
Oh god no I'd die of embarassment if they saw me masturbating 3 7.14%
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post #1 of 24 (permalink) Old 02-17-2017, 09:54 AM Thread Starter
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Do or have you openly masturbated to orgasm in front of your spouse

please see the poll and thank you for being understanding of this newbie here


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I'll do it if it's one of those weird times where it's taking me longer than normal for whatever reason. He'll still use his fingers inside but I'll handle clitoral stimulation. wow that sounds so clinical LOL

Other than that there's no point. Orgasms from him feel infinitely better(more intense) than ones I can give myself.
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I guess that's kind of a fantasy of mine to watch my loving wife do it.
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I guess that's kind of a fantasy of mine to watch my loving wife do it.
I get it. I like to watch my husband touch himself. I don't know why it's sexy but it is. Nothing shameful or weird about it.
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I did once but my W stopped me. She said she wanted to take care of the fun. My W has for me. However, I let her go to completion.

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Yes! Not many other options when things are long distance for a while. Probably done it for each other almost as many times as we've had sex.
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Yes, a lot of stroking here and there throughout lovemaking. Usually only to orgasm if PIV is not an option for some reason...it's a quickie... she's sore from me going on too long.... I just need release and she's not into it. My wife is reluctant to masturbate in front of me, but orgasms dependably from oral with some nipple play.
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Re: Do or have you openly masturbated to orgasm in front of your spouse

Never done it.. we'd both rather touch each other...

Never even thought about this till I read postings here, how some do this...so I asked him one day if he'd like that sort of thing...not touching himself.. no... but watching me.. he said that would be a turn on... I guess that's normal.. Though he knows I'd far rather have his hands on me.... I doubt we'll ever go here, just like I'd rather have my hands on him too...just something about mutually sharing when it comes to sex..


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No I wouldn't be interested in that at all.I prefer my partner to be fully involved rather than an interested bystander.
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Post menopause our drives are no longer so nicely matched. One way we cope is "I say when, she says what", and occasionally that what is I take care of myself while she merely provides the eye candy and a place to finish off on. It's better than angrily beating off in the shower as it does provide a emotional connection, plus often it leads to her taking a "more active role".




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It is one of the hottest things in life. We both do it on the odd occasion, I swear it is the thing that most turns me on when I am playing back some mind movies.
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Men love to watch their partners do such a thing but women tend to find it embarrassing most of the time
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Men love to watch their partners do such a thing but women tend to find it embarrassing most of the time
Um (raises hand) no we don't. LOL. Extremely hot. I love watching my boyfriend touch himself.
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Men love to watch their partners do such a thing but women tend to find it embarrassing most of the time
That's how my wife is. She has confided in me that she has at times like when I was in the hospital. I had been bitten by a brown recluse and spent two days in the hospital. when she came to visit she held her finger to her lips as she entered the room, came to me kissed me ran her fingers under my nose then into my mouth. I instantly knew what had happened. Good thing the nurse had already finished my vitals that morning or I'd have had a raised heartbeat. lol
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Yes... both of us have enjoyed watching each other in the past... sometimes it would be a game to see who would pounce first.

When health issues hit H it became a regular staple of our sex life as he did not always have energy or ability for PIV. I found it very erotic on both sides and once I got over initial shyness of performing it was actually very empowering.




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