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Do you regularly masturbate to orgasm in front of your spouse as part of forplay

  • Yes

    Votes: 20 47.6%
  • No

    Votes: 12 28.6%
  • We have talked about it but haven't worked up the nerve yet

    Votes: 5 11.9%
  • I'd like to but am afraid of what my spouse would think of me

    Votes: 2 4.8%
  • Oh god no I'd die of embarassment if they saw me masturbating

    Votes: 3 7.1%
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Do or have you openly masturbated to orgasm in front of your spouse

16K views 23 replies 17 participants last post by  genabee 
#1 · (Edited)
please see the poll and thank you for being understanding of this newbie here
 
#2 ·
I'll do it if it's one of those weird times where it's taking me longer than normal for whatever reason. He'll still use his fingers inside but I'll handle clitoral stimulation. wow that sounds so clinical LOL

Other than that there's no point. Orgasms from him feel infinitely better(more intense) than ones I can give myself.
 
#7 ·
Yes, a lot of stroking here and there throughout lovemaking. Usually only to orgasm if PIV is not an option for some reason...it's a quickie... she's sore from me going on too long.... I just need release and she's not into it. My wife is reluctant to masturbate in front of me, but orgasms dependably from oral with some nipple play.
 
#8 ·
Never done it.. we'd both rather touch each other...

Never even thought about this till I read postings here, how some do this...so I asked him one day if he'd like that sort of thing...not touching himself.. no... but watching me.. he said that would be a turn on... I guess that's normal.. Though he knows I'd far rather have his hands on me.... I doubt we'll ever go here, just like I'd rather have my hands on him too...just something about mutually sharing when it comes to sex..
 
#10 ·
Post menopause our drives are no longer so nicely matched. One way we cope is "I say when, she says what", and occasionally that what is I take care of myself while she merely provides the eye candy and a place to finish off on. It's better than angrily beating off in the shower as it does provide a emotional connection, plus often it leads to her taking a "more active role".
 
#15 ·
Yes... both of us have enjoyed watching each other in the past... sometimes it would be a game to see who would pounce first.

When health issues hit H it became a regular staple of our sex life as he did not always have energy or ability for PIV. I found it very erotic on both sides and once I got over initial shyness of performing it was actually very empowering.




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#16 ·
We do not do it often, as we both end up wanting to help the other, but it has happened several times. It's more so when he is working out of town and we FaceTime. I also do it when in certain positions as I tend to require clitoral stimulation to reach O during intercourse and there are some positions where I have much easier access than he does.
 
#17 ·
Masturbating in front of each other is something my wife and I do regularly, but never to completion. It's a part of foreplay to us. I absolutely LOVE seeing my wife do it. I think it is sooooo hot! I would absolutely love to see her do it to completion, and then clean up every drop of her dew orally. Dang! Now I'm horny...
 
#23 ·
Wifey likes for me to shave her because my point of view is much better than hers. That may have been what got this whole fantasy of mine going when she is feeling around and help me by holding herself at a certain angle or something I swear I've almost gone off just looking.
 
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