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post #16 of 40 (permalink) Old 02-23-2017, 08:59 PM
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I've always been very sensitive also, but not to the point of pain.

In my case I need a firmer touch, anything light or teasing just tickles and is unbearable. Firm pressure, particularly around the clit.... or sucking as opposed to light flicks of the tongue during oral are much more effective for me.

Related or not, I don't think I've ever climaxed from PIV alone... always need som clitoral stimulation as well.


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My wife tends to favor a more direct approach and can take a Hitachi applied directly to the tip of her clit.

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My entire body just clenched! 😮😬

Think I'm in the minority due to the abundance of vibrators and oral sex enthusiasts.

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My entire body just clenched! 😮😬

Think I'm in the minority due to the abundance of vibrators and oral sex enthusiasts.
By the same token, she also had two children with no injections and never felt her contractions. She was at one time hooked to a machine and the technician was saying, "right now you are having a huge contraction." she said she could feel kind of a twinge, but nothing painful. Both births were quick ordeals and very easy. She didn't like the "ring of fire" sensation, but that was the worst part for her.

Anyway, she orgasms quite well, but she isn't overly sensitive in that area.

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I think it is great that you took the time to tell your husband exactly the way you wanted him to do it. Many women are too bashful or prudish to do this. Then they complain about how there husband's don't know how to please them Thank you for not being one of those women.
The other side of this coin happens too. Some men don't want their wife to tell them exactly what they need. Some get angry if their wife does this.

So, this is might be good in that it might help those types of men realize that listening when their wife tells them exactly what works for her sexually, it might be good to listen. She just might be the only person in the world that knows what she needs and she's trying to share that with the man who should care about it.
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I don't have a perfect body, not even close. But I am not shy at all. This is my body and I love it, I have to Bc it's the only one I have. I love sex, I love to orgasm. When I have sex, I do it with the expectation to orgasm. To me... that's the point. (Sorry if that makes people mad but sex without an orgasm sucks). I believe that no means no, and more importantly I believe yes means yes. If I don't want to have sex with you I won't. I don't believe in dutiful sex. When I want to have sex... I want to have sex. When I say yes, I want to have sex. When I have sex I'm in it to win it... not to sit their and not enjoy myself. That's the way I am. Some people think this is selfish. But if I am going to have sex... I do it for a reason, because I want to have an orgasm. It's the best feeling and stress reliever in the world. When my husband finishes before me, he knows that he has to finish me off. That's the way I have always been since day one. I set the standard... if you cum, then I have to cum.
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Nobody's tongue is touching my button either! Seriously, no direct touching, ever😮 Oral does nothing for me, direct touching is painful and the tongue isn't really all that useful for applying indirect pressure near the button which I intensely enjoy.
Okay, so it's not that uncommon, which was what I was wondering!

I do wish that she had been more open about it all at the time. It's likely that manual stimulation (by me) around the area would have done something. Like you, oral was out. She'd allow me to do it South of the clit, mainly for lubrication, but that was about it. And even though I knew direct stimulation was out, I don't ever recall her allowing me to manually simulate around it (the same way she did with a vibrator). Trust issues, I guess.

I do wonder if the physical size of the clit has any sort of correlation, though. Hers was almost non-existent if I recall. By contrast, my wife's is more prominent (though I think average size). Perhaps the amount of nerve endings all packed into a smaller area created heightened over-sensitivity?

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Okay, so it's not that uncommon, which was what I was wondering!

I do wish that she had been more open about it all at the time. It's likely that manual stimulation (by me) around the area would have done something. Like you, oral was out. She'd allow me to do it South of the clit, mainly for lubrication, but that was about it. And even though I knew direct stimulation was out, I don't ever recall her allowing me to manually simulate around it (the same way she did with a vibrator). Trust issues, I guess.

I do wonder if the physical size of the clit has any sort of correlation, though. Hers was almost non-existent if I recall. By contrast, my wife's is more prominent (though I think average size). Perhaps the amount of nerve endings all packed into a smaller area created heightened over-sensitivity?
I wondered this too, since the only woman I have encountered who was that sensitive was also the one with the smalles clit (external).

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Okay, so it's not that uncommon, which was what I was wondering!
I don't even think women realize how different their genitals are. I really don't but how could they? Unless they are lesbians, they only know how THEIR equipment works and many assume it's similar. They couldn't be more wrong. I think I've personally seen virtually all extremes.

Women who didn't want it touched at all.

Women who would straddle a jet engine if you let them.

Women who can't orgasm from PIV to save their lives.

Women who can multiple times from it, no issues at all.

And men are supposed to figure this all out with virtually no input from them, otherwise be branded a horrible lover forever. You just can't win....

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I have absolutely no idea how large my clit is compared to others. They aren't really out there in the open to observe, even in locker rooms. I'll ask my husband, but he's only been with one other woman, and I don't think he knew very much when he was 18. Maybe we will have a scientific contrast and compare session this weekend with computer pics. 😀

We did measure the distance from my clit to the vaginal opening once, which is small. Seems women with a larger distance between don't normally orgasm from piv.

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My entire body just clenched! ����

Think I'm in the minority due to the abundance of vibrators and oral sex enthusiasts.
So.....should he just blow on it?

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The men are taken to the Fountainhead and are forced to avoid direct contact with the robed Deity. The pretty gem ensconced in the center.
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The other side of this coin happens too. Some men don't want their wife to tell them exactly what they need. Some get angry if their wife does this.

So, this is might be good in that it might help those types of men realize that listening when their wife tells them exactly what works for her sexually, it might be good to listen. She just might be the only person in the world that knows what she needs and she's trying to share that with the man who should care about it.
Well now is a good time for women to step up and do this, because we live in an age where men are more pussified and limp-wristed than they ever have been in the history of our society.
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To all the women out there: TELL your man what you like, and what you don't like, OUT LOUD! It makes it so much easier for them to get better at pleasing you!

There's nothing more satisfying for me than to see my wife in the waves of orgasmic glory. I absolutely love her taste, and cleaning up afterward is to die for. I get so turned on that I sometimes can't contain myself and have an O without meaning to. Fortunately, I can still go for as long as needed most of the time.
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To all the women out there: TELL your man what you like, and what you don't like, OUT LOUD! It makes it so much easier for them to get better at pleasing you!

There's nothing more satisfying for me than to see my wife in the waves of orgasmic glory. I absolutely love her taste, and cleaning up afterward is to die for. I get so turned on that I sometimes can't contain myself and have an O without meaning to. Fortunately, I can still go for as long as needed most of the time.
I'm kind of the same way. I feel more masculine when I can make my partner cum than when I'm cumming in her.
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I don't even think women realize how different their genitals are. I really don't but how could they? Unless they are lesbians, they only know how THEIR equipment works and many assume it's similar. They couldn't be more wrong. I think I've personally seen virtually all extremes.

Women who didn't want it touched at all.

Women who would straddle a jet engine if you let them.

Women who can't orgasm from PIV to save their lives.

Women who can multiple times from it, no issues at all.

And men are supposed to figure this all out with virtually no input from them, otherwise be branded a horrible lover forever. You just can't win....


But that's true with everyone... no one is the same. Some men love their balls played with, tugged on etc. my husband would have a stroke if I did that to him.
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